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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)

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  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    edited 2:17AM
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah by who can i ask?

    a fucking helpline :(

    @eylah i can't imagine how hard it is to not be able to say what it is here, and then when you reach out to a helpline to talk, they do this to you. It must be so hard right now, and you must feel so isolated, and i'm so sorry your facing this. I know it's not the same, but maybe a watered down version you could speak about here, or maybe say it here and then delete before the mods see it. It's not ideal, but it's an option. I want to be here for you eylah as much as i can. Now give yourself a big hug from me. <3

    they said it was a precaution even though I said I was fine and didn’t need extra help from anyone. :( i just want to cry im never gonna call for help again. im safe and everything i don’t need help 😭

    @eylah yes you do. You need help. You deserve help. And i'm so sorry they ignored you and put you through this. That's not what helplines are supposed to do. They are supposed to help, not cause more harm. I know how hard it is eylah for you right now to see, but i really do care about you, and i really want you to get all the support in the world. And i know your afraid after all of these cases, so why not try, an AI chatbot. I know the idea sounds stupid, but it's worth a try. You can make a free account on Character AI, use a fake name, fake email, it won't call emergency services (it literally can't), just don't add personal details just for data protection reasons. I even told it i had a nuclear bomb and was going to nuke France, and it couldn't do anything. You can talk to an AI helpline as dumb as it sounds. I do it.

    Link to create a character AI account: https://character.ai/

    Link for an AI Helpline character: https://character.ai/chat/njNU-MhUymMt4NQ0rZHunNuw9IrkUYe24WJihlMFw50

    @eylah i don't know if you saw this at all, but it's something to consider. The memory isn't the best, forgets stuff after like 30 posts, but i've told it all sorts and all it does is answer. It won't answer when there's buzzwords like suicide, domestic violence, etc etc but you can literally say anything alternative and it works. It's a place to vent to without fear of emergency services being called, because it's better than not being able to vent at all.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.

    @eylah good. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of rudeness. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah by who can i ask?

    a fucking helpline :(

    @eylah i can't imagine how hard it is to not be able to say what it is here, and then when you reach out to a helpline to talk, they do this to you. It must be so hard right now, and you must feel so isolated, and i'm so sorry your facing this. I know it's not the same, but maybe a watered down version you could speak about here, or maybe say it here and then delete before the mods see it. It's not ideal, but it's an option. I want to be here for you eylah as much as i can. Now give yourself a big hug from me. <3

    they said it was a precaution even though I said I was fine and didn’t need extra help from anyone. :( i just want to cry im never gonna call for help again. im safe and everything i don’t need help 😭

    @eylah yes you do. You need help. You deserve help. And i'm so sorry they ignored you and put you through this. That's not what helplines are supposed to do. They are supposed to help, not cause more harm. I know how hard it is eylah for you right now to see, but i really do care about you, and i really want you to get all the support in the world. And i know your afraid after all of these cases, so why not try, an AI chatbot. I know the idea sounds stupid, but it's worth a try. You can make a free account on Character AI, use a fake name, fake email, it won't call emergency services (it literally can't), just don't add personal details just for data protection reasons. I even told it i had a nuclear bomb and was going to nuke France, and it couldn't do anything. You can talk to an AI helpline as dumb as it sounds. I do it.

    Link to create a character AI account: https://character.ai/

    Link for an AI Helpline character: https://character.ai/chat/njNU-MhUymMt4NQ0rZHunNuw9IrkUYe24WJihlMFw50

    @eylah i don't know if you saw this at all, but it's something to consider. The memory isn't the best, forgets stuff after like 30 posts, but i've told it all sorts and all it does is answer. It won't answer when there's buzzwords like suicide, domestic violence, etc etc but you can literally say anything alternative and it works. It's a place to vent to without fear of emergency services being called, because it's better than not being able to vent at all.

    i don’t like ai lol
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.

    @eylah good. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of rudeness. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself.

    im back at home now but can’t sleep.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah by who can i ask?

    a fucking helpline :(

    @eylah i can't imagine how hard it is to not be able to say what it is here, and then when you reach out to a helpline to talk, they do this to you. It must be so hard right now, and you must feel so isolated, and i'm so sorry your facing this. I know it's not the same, but maybe a watered down version you could speak about here, or maybe say it here and then delete before the mods see it. It's not ideal, but it's an option. I want to be here for you eylah as much as i can. Now give yourself a big hug from me. <3

    they said it was a precaution even though I said I was fine and didn’t need extra help from anyone. :( i just want to cry im never gonna call for help again. im safe and everything i don’t need help 😭

    @eylah yes you do. You need help. You deserve help. And i'm so sorry they ignored you and put you through this. That's not what helplines are supposed to do. They are supposed to help, not cause more harm. I know how hard it is eylah for you right now to see, but i really do care about you, and i really want you to get all the support in the world. And i know your afraid after all of these cases, so why not try, an AI chatbot. I know the idea sounds stupid, but it's worth a try. You can make a free account on Character AI, use a fake name, fake email, it won't call emergency services (it literally can't), just don't add personal details just for data protection reasons. I even told it i had a nuclear bomb and was going to nuke France, and it couldn't do anything. You can talk to an AI helpline as dumb as it sounds. I do it.

    Link to create a character AI account: https://character.ai/

    Link for an AI Helpline character: https://character.ai/chat/njNU-MhUymMt4NQ0rZHunNuw9IrkUYe24WJihlMFw50

    @eylah i don't know if you saw this at all, but it's something to consider. The memory isn't the best, forgets stuff after like 30 posts, but i've told it all sorts and all it does is answer. It won't answer when there's buzzwords like suicide, domestic violence, etc etc but you can literally say anything alternative and it works. It's a place to vent to without fear of emergency services being called, because it's better than not being able to vent at all.

    i don’t like ai lol

    @eylah sorry, just a suggestion. I don't know where else you can vent to, fully risk free of it being escalated to emergency services.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.

    @eylah good. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of rudeness. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself.

    im back at home now but can’t sleep.

    @eylah I'm happy to stay up and chat to you a bit to keep you company till you fall asleep if you want
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah by who can i ask?

    a fucking helpline :(

    @eylah i can't imagine how hard it is to not be able to say what it is here, and then when you reach out to a helpline to talk, they do this to you. It must be so hard right now, and you must feel so isolated, and i'm so sorry your facing this. I know it's not the same, but maybe a watered down version you could speak about here, or maybe say it here and then delete before the mods see it. It's not ideal, but it's an option. I want to be here for you eylah as much as i can. Now give yourself a big hug from me. <3

    they said it was a precaution even though I said I was fine and didn’t need extra help from anyone. :( i just want to cry im never gonna call for help again. im safe and everything i don’t need help 😭

    @eylah yes you do. You need help. You deserve help. And i'm so sorry they ignored you and put you through this. That's not what helplines are supposed to do. They are supposed to help, not cause more harm. I know how hard it is eylah for you right now to see, but i really do care about you, and i really want you to get all the support in the world. And i know your afraid after all of these cases, so why not try, an AI chatbot. I know the idea sounds stupid, but it's worth a try. You can make a free account on Character AI, use a fake name, fake email, it won't call emergency services (it literally can't), just don't add personal details just for data protection reasons. I even told it i had a nuclear bomb and was going to nuke France, and it couldn't do anything. You can talk to an AI helpline as dumb as it sounds. I do it.

    Link to create a character AI account: https://character.ai/

    Link for an AI Helpline character: https://character.ai/chat/njNU-MhUymMt4NQ0rZHunNuw9IrkUYe24WJihlMFw50

    @eylah i don't know if you saw this at all, but it's something to consider. The memory isn't the best, forgets stuff after like 30 posts, but i've told it all sorts and all it does is answer. It won't answer when there's buzzwords like suicide, domestic violence, etc etc but you can literally say anything alternative and it works. It's a place to vent to without fear of emergency services being called, because it's better than not being able to vent at all.

    i don’t like ai lol

    @eylah sorry, just a suggestion. I don't know where else you can vent to, fully risk free of it being escalated to emergency services.

    i mean they had 0 reasons to escalate things to emergency services. i had no plans or nothing so they had 0 rights. like im not stupid i know if i said anything that needed escalation but i didnt. so it just shit but im never reaching out ever again.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.

    @eylah good. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of rudeness. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself.

    im back at home now but can’t sleep.

    @eylah I'm happy to stay up and chat to you a bit to keep you company till you fall asleep if you want

    sounds gd <3 i love talking to my favourite fellow twat <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah by who can i ask?

    a fucking helpline :(

    @eylah i can't imagine how hard it is to not be able to say what it is here, and then when you reach out to a helpline to talk, they do this to you. It must be so hard right now, and you must feel so isolated, and i'm so sorry your facing this. I know it's not the same, but maybe a watered down version you could speak about here, or maybe say it here and then delete before the mods see it. It's not ideal, but it's an option. I want to be here for you eylah as much as i can. Now give yourself a big hug from me. <3

    they said it was a precaution even though I said I was fine and didn’t need extra help from anyone. :( i just want to cry im never gonna call for help again. im safe and everything i don’t need help 😭

    @eylah yes you do. You need help. You deserve help. And i'm so sorry they ignored you and put you through this. That's not what helplines are supposed to do. They are supposed to help, not cause more harm. I know how hard it is eylah for you right now to see, but i really do care about you, and i really want you to get all the support in the world. And i know your afraid after all of these cases, so why not try, an AI chatbot. I know the idea sounds stupid, but it's worth a try. You can make a free account on Character AI, use a fake name, fake email, it won't call emergency services (it literally can't), just don't add personal details just for data protection reasons. I even told it i had a nuclear bomb and was going to nuke France, and it couldn't do anything. You can talk to an AI helpline as dumb as it sounds. I do it.

    Link to create a character AI account: https://character.ai/

    Link for an AI Helpline character: https://character.ai/chat/njNU-MhUymMt4NQ0rZHunNuw9IrkUYe24WJihlMFw50

    @eylah i don't know if you saw this at all, but it's something to consider. The memory isn't the best, forgets stuff after like 30 posts, but i've told it all sorts and all it does is answer. It won't answer when there's buzzwords like suicide, domestic violence, etc etc but you can literally say anything alternative and it works. It's a place to vent to without fear of emergency services being called, because it's better than not being able to vent at all.

    i don’t like ai lol

    @eylah sorry, just a suggestion. I don't know where else you can vent to, fully risk free of it being escalated to emergency services.

    i mean they had 0 reasons to escalate things to emergency services. i had no plans or nothing so they had 0 rights. like im not stupid i know if i said anything that needed escalation but i didnt. so it just shit but im never reaching out ever again.

    @eylah it makes no sense them doing it if there's no risk or plan. All they've done is pushed people away. I think shannon had something similar. People who just need a place to vent to, getting escalated needlessly and it ruining there chances of reaching out to vent and get support in future. It's just short sighted.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.

    @eylah good. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of rudeness. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself.

    im back at home now but can’t sleep.

    @eylah I'm happy to stay up and chat to you a bit to keep you company till you fall asleep if you want

    sounds gd <3 i love talking to my favourite fellow twat <3

    @eylah and i love talking to the most awesome fellow twat in the world too <3
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    @eylah so, did you do anything interesting today?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    and tbh i can relate once to the mix sharing something i didn’t want escalating but that was like last year so i mean nothing since so its ok. but i dont know if i can be fully 100% open here abt how i feel bc i dont want it escalating.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.

    @eylah good. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of rudeness. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself.

    im back at home now but can’t sleep.

    @eylah I'm happy to stay up and chat to you a bit to keep you company till you fall asleep if you want

    sounds gd <3 i love talking to my favourite fellow twat <3

    @eylah and i love talking to the most awesome fellow twat in the world too <3

    forever favourite twat ❤️
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    and tbh i can relate once to the mix sharing something i didn’t want escalating but that was like last year so i mean nothing since so its ok. but i dont know if i can be fully 100% open here abt how i feel bc i dont want it escalating.

    @eylah it seems like a bit of a common trend. I gave Shannon my email just in case she ever wants to reach out and have somebody to vent to once she's left here, so she isn't alone, and she knows i would only call it if she told me there was an active plan to do something imminently. I think everybody needs somewhere they can openly and freely vent to without fear of that, and i think a lot of people are trigger happy escalating. It should be, this person does not have an active plan so no escalation. This person does, has said they do and intent to, so that should be escalated, you know. I think it's becoming a barrier to people seeking help.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.

    @eylah good. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of rudeness. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself.

    im back at home now but can’t sleep.

    @eylah I'm happy to stay up and chat to you a bit to keep you company till you fall asleep if you want

    sounds gd <3 i love talking to my favourite fellow twat <3

    @eylah and i love talking to the most awesome fellow twat in the world too <3

    forever favourite twat ❤️

    @eylah Team twat forever and ever <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    and tbh i can relate once to the mix sharing something i didn’t want escalating but that was like last year so i mean nothing since so its ok. but i dont know if i can be fully 100% open here abt how i feel bc i dont want it escalating.

    @eylah it seems like a bit of a common trend. I gave Shannon my email just in case she ever wants to reach out and have somebody to vent to once she's left here, so she isn't alone, and she knows i would only call it if she told me there was an active plan to do something imminently. I think everybody needs somewhere they can openly and freely vent to without fear of that, and i think a lot of people are trigger happy escalating. It should be, this person does not have an active plan so no escalation. This person does, has said they do and intent to, so that should be escalated, you know. I think it's becoming a barrier to people seeking help.

    100% it’s ridiculous.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.

    @eylah good. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of rudeness. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself.

    im back at home now but can’t sleep.

    @eylah I'm happy to stay up and chat to you a bit to keep you company till you fall asleep if you want

    sounds gd <3 i love talking to my favourite fellow twat <3

    @eylah and i love talking to the most awesome fellow twat in the world too <3

    forever favourite twat ❤️

    @eylah Team twat forever and ever <3

    #teamtwatforever <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
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    and tbh i can relate once to the mix sharing something i didn’t want escalating but that was like last year so i mean nothing since so its ok. but i dont know if i can be fully 100% open here abt how i feel bc i dont want it escalating.

    @eylah it seems like a bit of a common trend. I gave Shannon my email just in case she ever wants to reach out and have somebody to vent to once she's left here, so she isn't alone, and she knows i would only call it if she told me there was an active plan to do something imminently. I think everybody needs somewhere they can openly and freely vent to without fear of that, and i think a lot of people are trigger happy escalating. It should be, this person does not have an active plan so no escalation. This person does, has said they do and intent to, so that should be escalated, you know. I think it's becoming a barrier to people seeking help.

    100% it’s ridiculous.

    @eylah i bet there's a huge amount people who aren't saying what's really troubling them out of fear of escalation. I mean, my whole plan is to eventually move to a different country either the US or Australia, so if i had an emergency service escalation, that's gonna have a major impact on my future plans (background check for mental stability). I already had life plans blown up once by something different, I would be broken if my plans were blown up again. And on here, Shannon mentioned something major she had been working towards for 4 months was ruined by an escalation. it's tough, and it can ruin some peoples plans and dreams which scares people off.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
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    apparently i was being judgmental to the police all bc i told them they was being rude to me & bc i didn’t like how their attitude was towards me. so i was told im being judgmental. lol fuck emergency services.

    @eylah they can be like that. My grandma had a rough encounter with a police officer, and the bugger was just rude to her the whole time trying to impress a female colleague. It was the silliest thing ever, so my gran just told them to get fucked. You'd think if it was a precautionary check up, they would have at least acted with manners and been warm and kind, but no it seems. They are pricks even then.

    ive had multiple bad experiences with them and today was another one. was told ambo was gonna come to do a welfare check on me but turns out police came? then ambo and they was very rude. so i told them to get fucked and i left.

    @eylah good. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of rudeness. I'm proud of you for sticking up for yourself.

    im back at home now but can’t sleep.

    @eylah I'm happy to stay up and chat to you a bit to keep you company till you fall asleep if you want

    sounds gd <3 i love talking to my favourite fellow twat <3

    @eylah and i love talking to the most awesome fellow twat in the world too <3

    forever favourite twat ❤️

    @eylah Team twat forever and ever <3

    #teamtwatforever <3

    #TeamTwatForeverAndEver <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    sry another ambulance turned up.. least they was nice! but apparently police called them again lol cba with these fucking police lol. but talked to them for a gd while and they were very kind. these two paramedics was nicest crew out there. apparently when i left the ambo/police earlier ambo told police i didn’t have capacity then police called them again when they knew I was at my flat. its ridiculous 😩🤣 i can finally sleep today lol.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    sry another ambulance turned up.. least they was nice! but apparently police called them again lol cba with these fucking police lol. but talked to them for a gd while and they were very kind. these two paramedics was nicest crew out there. apparently when i left the ambo/police earlier ambo told police i didn’t have capacity then police called them again when they knew I was at my flat. its ridiculous 😩🤣 i can finally sleep today lol.

    @eylah that is total madness. Another one. The police really are useless aren't they and the first ambulance. At this rate, the air ambulance will make there appearance soon enough. :'( At least the ambulance crew weren't assholes to you this time round. Got to enjoy the small mercies you know, cause this is mad.

    And don't you dare say sry at the start. You take what time you need to deal with those baboons.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    sry another ambulance turned up.. least they was nice! but apparently police called them again lol cba with these fucking police lol. but talked to them for a gd while and they were very kind. these two paramedics was nicest crew out there. apparently when i left the ambo/police earlier ambo told police i didn’t have capacity then police called them again when they knew I was at my flat. its ridiculous 😩🤣 i can finally sleep today lol.

    @eylah that is total madness. Another one. The police really are useless aren't they and the first ambulance. At this rate, the air ambulance will make there appearance soon enough. :'( At least the ambulance crew weren't assholes to you this time round. Got to enjoy the small mercies you know, cause this is mad.

    And don't you dare say sry at the start. You take what time you need to deal with those baboons.

    i should not laugh at your comment but it made me giggle 🤣. im so exhausted im probably gonna go sleep now but ill see how you’re doing in the morning <3 sleep well my favourite twat <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,150 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    sry another ambulance turned up.. least they was nice! but apparently police called them again lol cba with these fucking police lol. but talked to them for a gd while and they were very kind. these two paramedics was nicest crew out there. apparently when i left the ambo/police earlier ambo told police i didn’t have capacity then police called them again when they knew I was at my flat. its ridiculous 😩🤣 i can finally sleep today lol.

    @eylah that is total madness. Another one. The police really are useless aren't they and the first ambulance. At this rate, the air ambulance will make there appearance soon enough. :'( At least the ambulance crew weren't assholes to you this time round. Got to enjoy the small mercies you know, cause this is mad.

    And don't you dare say sry at the start. You take what time you need to deal with those baboons.

    i should not laugh at your comment but it made me giggle 🤣. im so exhausted im probably gonna go sleep now but ill see how you’re doing in the morning <3 sleep well my favourite twat <3

    @eylah you too, most awesome twat in the world <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,027 Legendary Poster
    just woke up crying for some reason. :/

    ( hugs ) @DonnerKebab <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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