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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)

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  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,136 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    if you feel like you’re at risk pls contact 111 option 2. shout or samaritans bc we can’t safely support you in a active crisis. or if it’s a emergency contact 999 and ask for a ambulance. if they think a inpatient stay wont benefit you then that’s a gd thing but i hear you that you’re frustrated abt this. if you have a psychiatrist pls contact them and maybe explain what you’re feeling.

    i cant call anyone because my parents take away my phone at night right now because i could call the police or some random people in times of crisis. so i have to wait until i get better to use my phone at night. i have a psychiatrist appointment next month so ill tell the psychiatrist everything.

    @toffuna101 A month is a very long time to wait given the circumstances. Just make sure you tell helplines you reach out to, everything, and if you ever need to go to A&E because your life is at risk, and can't contact emergency services via phone, contact 111 online or contact a helpline and they'll contact emergency services for you. It may also be worth dropping an email to the psychiatrist for possible advice or help.

    i may get in contact with my psychiatrist then sooner than one month.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,716 Extreme Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    if you feel like you’re at risk pls contact 111 option 2. shout or samaritans bc we can’t safely support you in a active crisis. or if it’s a emergency contact 999 and ask for a ambulance. if they think a inpatient stay wont benefit you then that’s a gd thing but i hear you that you’re frustrated abt this. if you have a psychiatrist pls contact them and maybe explain what you’re feeling.

    i cant call anyone because my parents take away my phone at night right now because i could call the police or some random people in times of crisis. so i have to wait until i get better to use my phone at night. i have a psychiatrist appointment next month so ill tell the psychiatrist everything.

    @toffuna101 A month is a very long time to wait given the circumstances. Just make sure you tell helplines you reach out to, everything, and if you ever need to go to A&E because your life is at risk, and can't contact emergency services via phone, contact 111 online or contact a helpline and they'll contact emergency services for you. It may also be worth dropping an email to the psychiatrist for possible advice or help.

    i may get in contact with my psychiatrist then sooner than one month.

    @toffuna101 hopefully. if you send an email just talking about how things are for you, your psychiatrist may be able to give you some stopgap help, even if only through email exchange until your session. And it might also help your psychiatrist to better understand your situation so your not having to explain everything entirely from scratch in your first meeting with them.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,136 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    if you feel like you’re at risk pls contact 111 option 2. shout or samaritans bc we can’t safely support you in a active crisis. or if it’s a emergency contact 999 and ask for a ambulance. if they think a inpatient stay wont benefit you then that’s a gd thing but i hear you that you’re frustrated abt this. if you have a psychiatrist pls contact them and maybe explain what you’re feeling.

    i cant call anyone because my parents take away my phone at night right now because i could call the police or some random people in times of crisis. so i have to wait until i get better to use my phone at night. i have a psychiatrist appointment next month so ill tell the psychiatrist everything.

    @toffuna101 A month is a very long time to wait given the circumstances. Just make sure you tell helplines you reach out to, everything, and if you ever need to go to A&E because your life is at risk, and can't contact emergency services via phone, contact 111 online or contact a helpline and they'll contact emergency services for you. It may also be worth dropping an email to the psychiatrist for possible advice or help.

    i may get in contact with my psychiatrist then sooner than one month.

    @toffuna101 hopefully. if you send an email just talking about how things are for you, your psychiatrist may be able to give you some stopgap help, even if only through email exchange until your session. And it might also help your psychiatrist to better understand your situation so your not having to explain everything entirely from scratch in your first meeting with them.

    yeah.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,136 Boards Guru
    im so fed up. people think they know whats best for me but they really dont. maybe theyre sparing me from having to go on the other side of the country just to get a psychiatric bed or having to go through horrible stuff in a psychiatric hospital but its whats best for me. i deserve to be punished.
  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,725 Boards Guru
    @toffuna101 you don’t deserve to be punished, you haven’t done anything wrong. You deserve to be taken care of
  • KatieKatie Community Manager Posts: 1,114 Wise Owl
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    i cant call anyone because my parents take away my phone at night right now because i could call the police or some random people in times of crisis. so i have to wait until i get better to use my phone at night. i have a psychiatrist appointment next month so ill tell the psychiatrist everything.
    Hey @toffuna101 I hear your parents take away your phone at night in case you call someone, including times when you may be in crisis. I'm wondering how you'll be able to keep yourself safe at night times?

    Would you feel comfortable telling the people you live with if you were feeling unsafe or in crisis? I'm also wondering how you found speaking to childline last night and if they could be an option?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,136 Boards Guru
    AnonymousToe wrote: »
    @toffuna101 you don’t deserve to be punished, you haven’t done anything wrong. You deserve to be taken care of

    i guess so. i mean ive made some mistakes in the past but thats what makes us human.
    Katie wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    i cant call anyone because my parents take away my phone at night right now because i could call the police or some random people in times of crisis. so i have to wait until i get better to use my phone at night. i have a psychiatrist appointment next month so ill tell the psychiatrist everything.
    Hey @toffuna101 I hear your parents take away your phone at night in case you call someone, including times when you may be in crisis. I'm wondering how you'll be able to keep yourself safe at night times?

    Would you feel comfortable telling the people you live with if you were feeling unsafe or in crisis? I'm also wondering how you found speaking to childline last night and if they could be an option?

    well, i just try to think about positive things at night. i told my parents. i talked to childline in the early hours of the morning and that was alright i guess. theres nothing much they could do other than listen.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,136 Boards Guru
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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,801 The Mix Elder
    @toffuna101 sorry they broke confidentiality however maybe now camhs or whoever will see you struggling and help you
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,136 Boards Guru
    River wrote: »
    @toffuna101 sorry they broke confidentiality however maybe now camhs or whoever will see you struggling and help you

    yeah i hope they help me. maybe i need to have the home treatment team again but i doubt theyll refer me.
  • KatieKatie Community Manager Posts: 1,114 Wise Owl
    edited June 25
    We appreciate you keeping us updated @toffuna101. How did you find your chat with childline?

    I'm also wondering how you are you feeling about them passing it onto your CAMHS team? I hear you are wanting some practical support so I'm wondering if this is the outcome you was wanting if you feel comfy sharing?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,801 The Mix Elder
    A bookcase just decided to fall on my foot :/
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,648 Legendary Poster
    slowly giving up :(
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,648 Legendary Poster
    ouch are you okay @River ? <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,801 The Mix Elder
    Having a really bad night, keep uncontrollably switching with my age regression and alters 😭 I can’t cope with it
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 9,849 Supreme Poster
    Hugs @River look after yourself. <3
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,801 The Mix Elder
    Don’t want hugs rn sorry
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,716 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    Don’t want hugs rn sorry

    @River just know we all care about you deeply. You're a good friend and i'm sorry i've not been much support tonight with everything going on. I know how much your battling with right now, and your unique fight, and i just want you to know, we all support you and are here for you.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,801 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab its okay, you need to focus on you
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,716 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab its okay, you need to focus on you

    @River just because i've got this crap on with the Mix, doesn't mean i'm not gonna offer you what support i can friend. You deserve support, and it doesn't matter if this lot are being wrong and unjust to me, or if I was in the trenches of the somme like my namesake, i'm still here for you no matter what and still gonna offer you what support i can friend.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,801 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab was going to say something but not sure if I can delete it in time for only u to see lol
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,716 Extreme Poster
    @River don't put what you don't feel comfortable with. I'm here, and refreshing the feed every 20 seconds or so, so if you want to, you can, but don't feel you need to friend.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,801 The Mix Elder
    edited June 25
    Magicccc
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,716 Extreme Poster
    edited June 25
    @River pope Francis was an underrated pope 😂
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,801 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab eo you like what I replaced it to 🥲
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,716 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab eo you like what I replaced it to 🥲

    @River perhaps the greatest magic trick in the history of magic, maybe ever
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,136 Boards Guru
    Katie wrote: »
    We appreciate you keeping us updated @toffuna101. How did you find your chat with childline?

    I'm also wondering how you are you feeling about them passing it onto your CAMHS team? I hear you are wanting some practical support so I'm wondering if this is the outcome you was wanting if you feel comfy sharing?

    i dont know honestly, i just feel numb to it all.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,716 Extreme Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Katie wrote: »
    We appreciate you keeping us updated @toffuna101. How did you find your chat with childline?

    I'm also wondering how you are you feeling about them passing it onto your CAMHS team? I hear you are wanting some practical support so I'm wondering if this is the outcome you was wanting if you feel comfy sharing?

    i dont know honestly, i just feel numb to it all.

    @toffuna101 emotional numbness is preferable to pain, but isn't a long term fix. It might help you to hang on until you see your psychiatrist in a month though. We're here for you friend.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,136 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Katie wrote: »
    We appreciate you keeping us updated @toffuna101. How did you find your chat with childline?

    I'm also wondering how you are you feeling about them passing it onto your CAMHS team? I hear you are wanting some practical support so I'm wondering if this is the outcome you was wanting if you feel comfy sharing?

    i dont know honestly, i just feel numb to it all.

    @toffuna101 emotional numbness is preferable to pain, but isn't a long term fix. It might help you to hang on until you see your psychiatrist in a month though. We're here for you friend.

    my dad is going to try and book an emergency appointment with the psychiatrist by emailing him tomorrow.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,801 The Mix Elder
    edited June 25
    TW suicide talk!
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    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
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