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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @River could this be because of the tablets you stopped taking?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,008 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab no most likely not
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @eylah I don't blame you. I always get a bite to eat whenever i go into a greggs. i guess Costa's the same for you.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @River have you slept well, ate something today, and drank plenty of water?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,008 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab mm sort of :/
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @River is there at least somebody around right now in case you pass out? And by sort of, i'm guessing your missing a little one of them?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,008 Community Veteran
    She’s trying to start a fucking argument with me again :/ ffs I cba anymore
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,008 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab nah I’m home alone
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    edited June 12
    River wrote: »
    She’s trying to start a fucking argument with me again :/ ffs I cba anymore

    @River You're Mom again i take it?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,008 Community Veteran
    Just done my nails
    arcebhoyw3tf.jpg
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    River wrote: »
    Just done my nails
    arcebhoyw3tf.jpg

    ooh they look pretty
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @River I like it. Especially the pattern on the ring finger nail. it stands out.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @River I like it. Especially the pattern on the ring finger nail. it stands out.

    same.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    i wanna become a devoted christian and fully embrace my religion. if youve seen my post about christianity youd know that i want to switch from orthodox to protestant. the problem is i have the king james version of the bible, and if i want to fully embrace it i need to memorise a few quotes and learn about protestant christianity myself. and damn the vocabulary is complicated. but ill get used to it eventually. i want to spend my summer productively so i feel like this will be a good starting place other than going out with the carer. is anyone here christian?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    edited June 12
    I attend online church services for my local church, and go quite rarely when i can. It's church of England. I'm still trying to work everything out myself about it, but i can talk you through a few things here and there if you want, though i might not be the most ideal for it.

    You may want to look at something called alpha if the church you might go to has it. It's like an entry point to Christianity or for people returning, or for people entering a new church.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    I attend online church services for my local church, and go quite rarely when i can. It's church of England. I'm still trying to work everything out myself about it, but i can talk you through a few things here and there if you want, though i might not be the most ideal for it.

    You may want to look at something called alpha if the church you might go to has it. It's like an entry point to Christianity or for people returning, or for people entering a new church.

    ok ill look into alpha real quick.
    i dont think its for me honestly and my local church doesnt offer it. id rather become protestant christian the traditional way. @DonnerKebab
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,008 Community Veteran
    Feel like I’m gonna collapse 😕
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @toffuna101 i totally get it. but what i can say is that they will all welcome you with open arms whichever way you become a protestant. How are your family with it might i ask?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 i totally get it. but what i can say is that they will all welcome you with open arms whichever way you become a protestant. How are your family with it might i ask?

    @DonnerKebab yeah true. theyre ok with it, i mean im almost an adult so im old enough to make my own decisions in who i want to believe in.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @River sit down, so you don't fall. It might be worth calling 111 if it's severe. It could indicate something major wrong, or it might just be stress or something else. If you've eaten, had sleep, and drank water, then it's definitely worth seeing your GP, as annoying as you said they were to you.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    edited June 12
    @toffuna101 I'm very proud of you. It takes a lot of courage, especially at that age to make that leap. Even though your parents were okay with it, it must have been scary telling them and to make that leap yourself. You're a very brave person, and i want you to know that we all see it and are proud.

    The Anglican church that i'm in is community heavy, supporting one another, and taking care of one another, as are nearly all denominations i think, so you'll find people at whichever protestant church you go to who will welcome you with open arms and a variety of community events you could partake in perhaps.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 I'm very proud of you. It takes a lot of courage, especially at that age to make that leap. Even though your parents were okay with it, it must have been scary telling them and to make that leap yourself. You're a very brave person, and i want you to know that we all see it and are proud.

    The Anglican church that i'm in is community heavy, supporting one another, and taking care of one another, as are nearly all denominations i think, so you'll find people at whichever protestant church you go to who will welcome you with open arms and a variety of community events you could partake in perhaps.

    i think the one i went to today is an anglican church or maybe a protestant church with no denomination if thats possible @DonnerKebab
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @toffuna101 i think so. You could ask next time you go. But again, it's very brave of you to take this leap, and we are all very proud. Your a brave person my friend.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 i think so. You could ask next time you go. But again, it's very brave of you to take this leap, and we are all very proud. Your a brave person my friend.

    thank you. yeah its most likely anglican because the local church that i went to is linked with the church of england and the church of england is anglican. when did you realise you were an anglican? @DonnerKebab
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @toffuna101 i haven't really explored any other Christian denominations, just Anglicanism. I explored that bit of Christianity, Islam, Judaism and Sikhism, and came to the conclusion that I believe more strongly in Anglican Christianity than the other religions. Currently, I am only recently starting to learn about different Christian branches and am still making my mind up as to which one i feel most comfortable with and believe in the most.

    As for when i realised i was Christian, it was about 19. No Christianity in my family ever, or any links to it. Just atheists, which made it a bit of a scary jump for me revealing i was starting to get into Christianity and figuring out where to start, which is why i'm telling you that i see how brave you were too taking the leap into exploring other branches of Christianity. it can be scary at times, especially if it doesn't align with your family beliefs which is what makes you all the more courageous.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 i haven't really explored any other Christian denominations, just Anglicanism. I explored that bit of Christianity, Islam, Judaism and Sikhism, and came to the conclusion that I believe more strongly in Anglican Christianity than the other religions. Currently, I am only recently starting to learn about different Christian branches and am still making my mind up as to which one i feel most comfortable with and believe in the most.

    As for when i realised i was Christian, it was about 19. No Christianity in my family ever, or any links to it. Just atheists, which made it a bit of a scary jump for me revealing i was starting to get into Christianity and figuring out where to start, which is why i'm telling you that i see how brave you were too taking the leap into exploring other branches of Christianity. it can be scary at times, especially if it doesn't align with your family beliefs which is what makes you all the more courageous.

    thats interesting. well im glad you found something that you can align one of your beliefs to, and that just happens to be religious. i might as well be an anglican too since its similar to catholicism its a good balance between that and protestantism, its just that it leans more to being a protestant. what i find really interesting is that anglicanism used to be catholic but in the 16th century that changed. @DonnerKebab
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    hey
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    im getting another tattoo tmr!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 589 Incredible Poster
    @eylah awesome. What are you getting a tattoo of?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah awesome. What are you getting a tattoo of?

    not sure yet! will have a look when im at the tattoo place.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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