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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Community Connector Posts: 2,176 Boards Champion
    edited June 13
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @shannon_164 how are you feeling today if you don't mind me asking? How have things been for you friend?

    i’m feeling as ok as can be i suppose, can’t go into detail as it’s wrong to express any negative views about the mix on the boards but let’s just say their joke of a reply to my message drove me round the bend…

    how are you?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 590 Incredible Poster
    @River i totally get it. I remember you did. But the thing is with counsellors is you can change them until you find one your truly comfortable with. So far, you've had an alcoholic, and then a lunatic who claimed self harm was just attention seeking. You deserve a counsellor who will support you and will help you. Don't be afraid to change as many times as you need until you get the right fit.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,008 Community Veteran
    I sat on the call trying not to pass out as my vision kept going all whilst she was mocking
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,361 Community Veteran
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Is anyone able to talk please?

    sure, hi @Redemption <3

    Hey @toffuna101 how are you?

    im ok, i visited my old school today @Redemption the one that i dropped out of

    Was it awkward @toffuna101 ?

    nah not at all @Redemption anyways how are you? did you do anything interesting recently?

    Glad it wasn't. Im not too bad just on my course, I'm just badly overthinking @toffuna101
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Community Connector Posts: 2,176 Boards Champion
    that’s so unfair on you @River - no one deserves to have such awful experiences with counselling!
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,361 Community Veteran
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @Redemption I'm here to talk bro, what's on your mind?

    @DonnerKebab I'm just overthinking everything worrying I'm doing everything wrong, I'm at my course now, just on a late break.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 590 Incredible Poster
    @shannon_164 I'm doing fine thanks. I'm sorry that your not able to fully express everything here. But know that we care about you, and you are an awesome person. And it's understandable why you'd be frustrated not being able to vent about it all and having it dismissed. We're all proud of you for still pushing forward, and still being the kind soul that you are.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 590 Incredible Poster
    River wrote: »
    I sat on the call trying not to pass out as my vision kept going all whilst she was mocking

    @River yep, 100% change counsellor. i mean, who even is it, Emperor Palpatine or something? You honestly deserve so much better river.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,008 Community Veteran
    @shannon_164 seriously? When others have expressed it so many times what the fluff how’s that right, I would say we can chat privately but then again they took dm
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Community Connector Posts: 2,176 Boards Champion
    yeah @River - sure the mix likes inconsistency lol one rule for some and a different for others! sure my post was edited and closed before when i said i felt ignored but someone else shared feeling ignored and staff team replied apologising for them feeling that way and how they take accountability etc but i got shutdown literally and a dm from the staff team for being a problem…
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 pretty unnerving and a bit intimidating I'm guessing? I remember when at the end of college, i had to go back to my school to pick up my official GCSE certifications for my university application. Scary at first, but everybody was friendly. I'm guessing it might have been the same scariness for you too in the run up to going back?

    it wasnt, i didnt feel that way at all.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    at the tattoo place!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah what are you getting one of?

    this

    dhb17v9574e3.jpeg
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Community Connector Posts: 2,176 Boards Champion
    ah @eylah thats so pretty!
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    ah @eylah thats so pretty!

    it rly is!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    vg4w041bzxgo.jpeg
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Community Connector Posts: 2,176 Boards Champion
    ahhh @eylah i love it so much!!!
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,361 Community Veteran
    eylah wrote: »
    vg4w041bzxgo.jpeg

    So cool @eylah did that hurt?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,361 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab you still here to chat bro?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    ahhh @eylah i love it so much!!!

    thankyou <3
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    vg4w041bzxgo.jpeg

    So cool @eylah did that hurt?

    a little bit!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    vg4w041bzxgo.jpeg

    thats so cool!
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    edited June 13
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    vg4w041bzxgo.jpeg

    thats so cool!

    thankyou so much <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,722 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    vg4w041bzxgo.jpeg

    thats so cool!

    thankyou so much <3

    no problem <3
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 590 Incredible Poster
    @eylah amazing tattoo, and amazing message. I can't think of anything that truly symbolises struggles with hard times and resilience in the face of it, quite like that design. It looks fantastic.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 590 Incredible Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 pretty unnerving and a bit intimidating I'm guessing? I remember when at the end of college, i had to go back to my school to pick up my official GCSE certifications for my university application. Scary at first, but everybody was friendly. I'm guessing it might have been the same scariness for you too in the run up to going back?

    it wasnt, i didnt feel that way at all.

    @toffuna101 sorry, that's just me making assumptions from my past experiences. My bad. Glad to hear it went well for you.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 590 Incredible Poster
    @Redemption sorry mate, i had to go offline for a while. A few meltdowns from my brother. Here to talk if you want bro.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,361 Community Veteran
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @Redemption sorry mate, i had to go offline for a while. A few meltdowns from my brother. Here to talk if you want bro.

    @DonnerKebab No worries at all that's important. Hope everything's ok. Hope you had a good day apart from your brother.

    Mentions of alcohol
    Do you drink alcohol bro? If you don't mind asking, I'm just wondering but you don't need to answer if you don't want.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 590 Incredible Poster
    edited June 13
    @Redemption
    a couple of larger's every few months but not much more than that. Most i ever drank in one single sitting was a bottle of whiskey but that was spread out over like 12 hours solo on US election night. Predicted every state correct apart from Nevada B)

    Outside of that 1 of, a few larger's every few months is all. Oh and that time I had a fair few pints and proceeded to ace my uni project while tipsy 😂
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,008 Community Veteran
    I’m crying 😕
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 590 Incredible Poster
    @River that's alright, it's not a bad thing depending on why it is your crying. Do you want to talk a bit about it?
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