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(TW suicide) keeping getting job rejections makes me want to kill myself
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The environment we spend a lot of time in, such as work environments, can really affect moods. If we're surrounded by toxicity, then sometimes it can seep into our own lives. You deserve to be doing a role you enjoy surrounded by people who appreciate you, however I can understand that getting job rejections can be pretty disheartening. Can I ask if you're applying for a range of different jobs?
I've added a spoiler to your post - I hope that's okay. And thank you for adding the trigger warning.
Also thank you @eylah for tagging us and looking out for our community
And just to echo what Eylah said above:
If you're unable to call emergency services, you can also text 999. You first need to register your mobile by texting "register" to 999. Once registered, you can text the service whenever you need urgent help. You should then get a reply within two minutes either stating that help is on its way or that they need more information. If you don't hear back within 3 minutes, try again.
Also, is there a particular role you would like more than the others? We really do care about you and we hope you get the job you deserve soon, where you can feel appreciated
Some pointers I have become aware of are: the importance of targeting applications to the job criteria on the job description and the STAR technique. The STAR technique is where you outline:
The situation (usually the first sentence of the criteria)
The task you have achieved which has shown you meet the criteria
The action you took to achieve the technique
The result of meeting the criteria. I often also link the result to how it could benefit the employer you are applying to.
Do you feel like this might be something helpful for you too, or is there something else you think might be more helpful? Have any employers provided feedback on why your applications have not led to interviews or why the interviews might have been unsuccessful?
The competition can also make it really difficult, despite how strong you might be in your applications and interviews! How are you coping with the process - does anything, in particular, help you to switch off?
Feedback would be really helpful, wouldn't it? I understand that often interviewers have too many applicants (particularly from round 1!) to provide everyone with feedback but feedback helps us grow. Is there a common pattern in scripts for their desirable criteria?
I see the 'desirable criteria' as cherries on the cake! (or that extra glitter if you are a fan of glitter!). It sounds really difficult that you are losing hope but you are so brave for carrying on. Patience can be difficult when we recognise we are in a space we don't feel comfortable, supported or thrive in!