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Relationship breakdown

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,612 The Mix Elder
in Health & Wellbeing
I went to ask for help last week, but mum received emails from the manager telling her, tht I was playing up, nd the manager has arranged a MH appointment without my say so, r they allowed to do tht? I would think I would remember if I was being out of order, apparently he saw me on cctv being out of order to a member of staff. Apparently they had to restrain me but tht didn't happen. I sed I was having a 'mental mishap' n they didnt act appropriately so I texted 'shout' wen they were hopeless. Wat would be the proper way to deal with 'mental health crises' passed weeks I was signalling tht I wasn't doing so well, infront of staff but they turned their backs. UTIs r wat the manager thinks I hav but he mite have one coz he's a bully, outspoken and old
Crazy mad insane

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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,437 Part of The Furniture
    Hey @ellie2000. It sounds particularly difficult that this happened without your say so. Would you feel comfortable asking them to provide the CCTV clip if they are accusing you of behaviour which you do not remember happening?

    You deserve support, especially when you have already had the courage to share you were having a 'mental mishap'. When you are having a 'mental mishap', are there particular types of support you would find particularly helpful? I am wondering if it might help you and them to have notes about the support which would be most helpful?

    About the UTI, have you got access to the medical care you deserve?
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,612 The Mix Elder
    @Laura_tigger82 I haven't got a UTI, he sed it bc of my mood, I don't lay down like a dog anymore, is tht gd?, I say wat I think and it's normally the right thing. I don't remember getting aggressive I'm not tht sort of person. I ask for help thts it. He's a bully to the others too. The doctor says I don't hav a uti either.
    Crazy mad insane
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,437 Part of The Furniture
    You have every right to ask for help @ellie2000, especially from those who should be caring for you. It sounds positive that you do not have a UTI (UTI's can be uncomfortable and cause you to feel unwell).

    You don't deserve to be bullied, no one does. What would you like to happen from this bullying? I recognise some people feel more comfortable with reporting bullying than other people and you might want a different outcome.

    Has the MH appointment happened yet? We are here for you if you would like to share more with us about how this appointment has gone for you :)
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