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I give up fml

RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,459 Community Veteran
in Health & Wellbeing
How the fuck am I ment to do this constantly, hate my fucking triggers, one minute I’m fine and the next I’m in the worst mood ever, how tf do I keep a relationship with this, fuck my life
Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.

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  • ellaella Community Manager Posts: 485 Listening Ear
    It sounds like you're going through a tough time with your triggers @Rose113 Is there anything thats happen recently which might have activated them? <3

    Relationships can be so challenging, especially when dealing with your own mental health worries. Have you talked to your partner about how your triggers affect you? Maybe together, you can find ways to support each other and make space for both of your needs? :)
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,459 Community Veteran
    @ella my boyfriend, it’s like everything triggering me :/
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,302 Boards Champion
    Hey @Rose113, sorry to hear that you're going through a rough time at the moment with your triggers. Would you be able to talk to us a little more about how your boyfriend/everything has activated your triggers? We're here to listen to you <3
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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,459 Community Veteran
    @Azziman he talks about violence and punches things on like FaceTime and he does it to act “strong” but it just triggers
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,302 Boards Champion
    I can hear how seeing that violence can be triggering. I wonder, have you spoken to him about this? Communication is important, so if he's doing this and it's causing you a lot of grief, it's worth talking about this to work it through together.
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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,459 Community Veteran
    @Azziman I can’t :/
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,302 Boards Champion
    @Rose113 would be able to share a little more about how you're feeling? Is there a reason that you don't feel you can talk to your partner about this? We're here for you <3
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