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my mum is seriously unwell again 😭.

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  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    shes deteriorating again im actually scared. :/ been told to prepare for the worst.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,818 Boards Guru
    Omg I’m so sorry @eylah i really hope she starts getting better soon
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    been told likely ill lose her bc of multiple organ damage. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    not gd news. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 4,071 Community Veteran
    are there any updates?
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    yeah just need time to get my head around it. sry :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 4,071 Community Veteran
    its ok take your time
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    thankyou ill update soon just need time. <3 thankyoi
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DancerDancer Community Connector Posts: 8,307 Legendary Poster
    I am so sorry. I recently lost my mum and she had been very unwell for quite a while but nothing like this.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Posts: 1,232 Wise Owl
    So sorry to hear this sad news @eylah thinking of u and sending u so much love and strength <3 Grief can be so hard but remember to take all the time u need and prioritise u <3
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  • GemmaGemma Posts: 1,093 Wise Owl
    I'm so very sorry to hear this sad news @eylah. It's unthinkable what you're going through and the weight of the loss you must be feeling in this moment. Sending you so much love <3

    Can you be with family and friends who make you feel safe at this time?

    We're here for you and to be a listening ear. There are also lots of lovely services you can reach out to talk about what you're going through as you're certainly not alone:
    The Cruse National Helpline is staffed by trained bereavement support volunteers, who offer free emotional support, information, and counselling to anyone affected by a bereavement. Their helpline number is 0808 808 1677 and it is open from Monday and Friday 9:30am-5pm; Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday from 9:30am-8pm and Saturday and Sunday from 10am -2pm. They also have a webchat service open from 9am - 9pm Monday to Friday. For email support, you can contact them on helpline@cruse.org.uk. You can also visit their website.

    Hope Again is a service for young people up to 25 who are affected by a bereavement. They're run by Cruse Bereavement Care and they offer support via phone, email & have online support through their website. They are open Monday-Friday from 9.30am-5pm, and stay open until 8pm on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays. You can call them on 0808 808 1677 or email them at hopeagain@cruse.org.uk

    There's an organisation called Grief Encounter which aims to provide support to anyone who has suffered from a bereavement. They run a helpline and their website also contains helpful resources. They are open Monday - Friday from 9am - 9pm. You can call them on 0808 802 0111, email them at grieftalk@griefencounter.org.uk or visit their website for their counselling service and more information.

    Sending so much strength and thinking of you <3
    ♡♡♡
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