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ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,728 The Mix Elder
in Health & Wellbeing
If a person tells u ur not happy, is tht out of order wen u r happy. I only said about nuisance neighbours. And I sed at the end. 'I hate it wen people jump to conclusions'
Crazy mad insane

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 197 Trailblazer
    Hello @ellie2000
    It seems like your neighbours made an inconsiderate comment - and it's understandable to find it annoying and out of order. It is also understandable to establish boundaries by acknowledging this discomfort.

    Can you tell me a little bit more about why that comment made you uncomfortable?
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,728 The Mix Elder
    @genderless_fungi I hear a stamp on the upper floor, It triggers panic. So I emailed the manager the times it happens. We emailing back n for like a bicker match. He asked me if I was happy, then I finished with,
    ' I h8 it wen ppl jump to conclusions' is tht the right phrase
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,728 The Mix Elder
    @genderless_fungi is someone me 'am I happy' a acceptable question coming from a manager
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,728 The Mix Elder
    Is he hoping for reactions?
    Crazy mad insane
  • MaisyMaisy Inactive Posts: 701 Part of The Mix Family
    If this is an email conversation between you and the manager, it can be a bit difficult to know for sure, what his reaction really is, since we are relying on text and not in person communication (such as tone of voice, body language etc).

    It might be sarcastic or said out of annoyance, but it could be a genuine question, asking if you are happy. Did the manager try to come up with ideas on how he can fix the noise situation? Or mention that he will talk to the neighbours about keeping the noise down? If he did, then he may be trying to fix the situation and wanting your opinion/to know if you are happy with what he is trying to do to fix things.
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,728 The Mix Elder
    @Maisy I think he was acting bullyish. And making me panic. But it's alright now we've come to terms 😀
    Crazy mad insane
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,437 Part of The Furniture
    It sounds positive that you have come to terms now @ellie2000. However, you don't deserve to have had someone acting bullyish. How have you been feeling since - has the panic calmed down now? <3
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,728 The Mix Elder
    edited July 2024
    @Laura_tigger82 ppl r nice nd back to normal 😀. Did u no tht Mickey mouse had long ears once and was called 'mortimer rabbit'
    Crazy mad insane
  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Inactive Posts: 1,232 Wise Owl
    Hey @ellie2000 im glad to hear that ur feeling better about things and oh no i didnt know that abut Mickey Mouse! R u a Disney fan? Wishing u a good week ahead <3
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,728 The Mix Elder
    @ebyrne556 @Laura_tigger82 I don't like disney anymore, the messages they have r shocking. They r not 'u or pg' burning villages and dead dads no tar 🤣 wat do other ppl think?
    Crazy mad insane
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