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ellie2000

If a person tells u ur not happy, is tht out of order wen u r happy. I only said about nuisance neighbours. And I sed at the end. 'I hate it wen people jump to conclusions'

Former Member

Hello @ellie2000
It seems like your neighbours made an inconsiderate comment - and it's understandable to find it annoying and out of order. It is also understandable to establish boundaries by acknowledging this discomfort.

Can you tell me a little bit more about why that comment made you uncomfortable?

ellie2000

@genderless_fungi I hear a stamp on the upper floor, It triggers panic. So I emailed the manager the times it happens. We emailing back n for like a bicker match. He asked me if I was happy, then I finished with,
' I h8 it wen ppl jump to conclusions' is tht the right phrase

ellie2000

@genderless_fungi is someone me 'am I happy' a acceptable question coming from a manager

ellie2000

Is he hoping for reactions?

Maisy

If this is an email conversation between you and the manager, it can be a bit difficult to know for sure, what his reaction really is, since we are relying on text and not in person communication (such as tone of voice, body language etc).

It might be sarcastic or said out of annoyance, but it could be a genuine question, asking if you are happy. Did the manager try to come up with ideas on how he can fix the noise situation? Or mention that he will talk to the neighbours about keeping the noise down? If he did, then he may be trying to fix the situation and wanting your opinion/to know if you are happy with what he is trying to do to fix things.

ellie2000

@Maisy I think he was acting bullyish. And making me panic. But it's alright now we've come to terms 😀

Laura_tigger82

It sounds positive that you have come to terms now @ellie2000. However, you don't deserve to have had someone acting bullyish. How have you been feeling since - has the panic calmed down now?

ellie2000

@Laura_tigger82 ppl r nice nd back to normal 😀. Did u no tht Mickey mouse had long ears once and was called 'mortimer rabbit'

ebyrne556

Hey @ellie2000 im glad to hear that ur feeling better about things and oh no i didnt know that abut Mickey Mouse! R u a Disney fan? Wishing u a good week ahead

ellie2000

@ebyrne556 @Laura_tigger82 I don't like disney anymore, the messages they have r shocking. They r not 'u or pg' burning villages and dead dads no tar 🤣 wat do other ppl think?