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Party update

BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
in Neurodivergence
So got that party on Saturday and honestly I'm trying to not worry about it

I've got my outfit sorted and travel arrangements

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    AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 1,122 Wise Owl
    You’ve got this!!
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    BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
    A update my friend messaged me yesterday saying it's a pub party

    I think she told me to help me manage with the anxiety of it all
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    SlinkySlinky Posts: 53 Boards Initiate
    How do you feel about it being a pub party @BensonE ?

    I hope it goes well for you.
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    ebyrne556ebyrne556 Moderator Posts: 876 Part of The Mix Family
    Hope the party goes ok tomo night @BensonE just take it at ur own pace will b thinking of u :)
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    BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
    Slinky wrote: »
    How do you feel about it being a pub party @BensonE ?

    I hope it goes well for you.

    I already knew it was. Pub parties tend to be okay but depends if it function room or not
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    BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
    ebyrne556 wrote: »
    Hope the party goes ok tomo night @BensonE just take it at ur own pace will b thinking of u :)

    Thanks
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    SlinkySlinky Posts: 53 Boards Initiate
    Enjoy your party today Benson, I hope it goes well
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    sinead276sinead276 Posts: 1,115 Wise Owl
    hope you enjoy the party today Benson @BensonE
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    BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
    Who wants a update
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    SlinkySlinky Posts: 53 Boards Initiate
    All ears @BensonE
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    AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 1,122 Wise Owl
    How did it go?
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    BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
    Who wants a update
    AnonymousToe wrote: »
    How did it go?

    I think her mum likes me based on the few convos we had yesterday

    And I think rest of her family think I'm welsh based on how I was introduced to them
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    Orchid059Orchid059 Moderator Posts: 93 Budding Regular
    Hi @BensonE I'm glad to hear that it went well. Did you enjoy yourself?
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    BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
    Orchid059 wrote: »
    Hi @BensonE I'm glad to hear that it went well. Did you enjoy yourself?

    Had a few sensory overload moments and right at end was stressful because I had to look after her cousin whom was extremely drunk
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    AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 1,122 Wise Owl
    Well done for doing it Benson
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    BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
    AnonymousToe wrote: »
    Well done for doing it Benson

    Only did it because my friend semi asked me too

    I offered because she was worried about her cousin
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    Orchid059Orchid059 Moderator Posts: 93 Budding Regular
    BensonE wrote: »
    Orchid059 wrote: »
    Hi @BensonE I'm glad to hear that it went well. Did you enjoy yourself?

    Had a few sensory overload moments and right at end was stressful because I had to look after her cousin whom was extremely drunk

    Social occasions can be very overwhelming so well done for going as that takes a lot of courage. And also well done for stepping up and offering to look after your friend's cousin because that must have been stressful for you, especially because you don't know her
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    BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
    Orchid059 wrote: »
    BensonE wrote: »
    Orchid059 wrote: »
    Hi @BensonE I'm glad to hear that it went well. Did you enjoy yourself?

    Had a few sensory overload moments and right at end was stressful because I had to look after her cousin whom was extremely drunk

    Social occasions can be very overwhelming so well done for going as that takes a lot of courage. And also well done for stepping up and offering to look after your friend's cousin because that must have been stressful for you, especially because you don't know her

    It's not first I look after people I barely know
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    AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 1,909 Extreme Poster
    Hey @BensonE, just wanted to drop by and say well done for going to the party! It's really nice of you to look after your friend's cousin, I'm sure they really appreciated it and it's not an easy situation to handle. And if your friend's mum likes you, that's a big win too! B)
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    libbystrawberrylibbystrawberry Community Champion Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    BensonE wrote: »
    Who wants a update
    AnonymousToe wrote: »
    How did it go?

    I think her mum likes me based on the few convos we had yesterday

    And I think rest of her family think I'm welsh based on how I was introduced to them

    im glad it went well benson <3
    'And then one random night when everything changes you won't reply and we'll go back to strangers'
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    BensonEBensonE Posts: 154 Helping Hand
    Azziman wrote: »
    Hey @BensonE, just wanted to drop by and say well done for going to the party! It's really nice of you to look after your friend's cousin, I'm sure they really appreciated it and it's not an easy situation to handle. And if your friend's mum likes you, that's a big win too! B)

    Tbh I've always been that friend that always been liked by my friends parents
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