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Party update

BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
in Neurodivergence
So got that party on Saturday and honestly I'm trying to not worry about it

I've got my outfit sorted and travel arrangements

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  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,406 Boards Champion
    You’ve got this!!
  • BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
    A update my friend messaged me yesterday saying it's a pub party

    I think she told me to help me manage with the anxiety of it all
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 423 Listening Ear
    How do you feel about it being a pub party @BensonE ?

    I hope it goes well for you.
  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Moderator Posts: 1,199 Wise Owl
    Hope the party goes ok tomo night @BensonE just take it at ur own pace will b thinking of u :)
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  • BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
    Slinky wrote: »
    How do you feel about it being a pub party @BensonE ?

    I hope it goes well for you.

    I already knew it was. Pub parties tend to be okay but depends if it function room or not
  • BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
    ebyrne556 wrote: »
    Hope the party goes ok tomo night @BensonE just take it at ur own pace will b thinking of u :)

    Thanks
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 423 Listening Ear
    Enjoy your party today Benson, I hope it goes well
  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 1,700 Extreme Poster
    hope you enjoy the party today Benson @BensonE
  • BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
    Who wants a update
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 423 Listening Ear
    All ears @BensonE
  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,406 Boards Champion
    How did it go?
  • BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
    Who wants a update
    AnonymousToe wrote: »
    How did it go?

    I think her mum likes me based on the few convos we had yesterday

    And I think rest of her family think I'm welsh based on how I was introduced to them
  • Orchid059Orchid059 Moderator Posts: 318 The Mix Regular
    Hi @BensonE I'm glad to hear that it went well. Did you enjoy yourself?
  • BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
    Orchid059 wrote: »
    Hi @BensonE I'm glad to hear that it went well. Did you enjoy yourself?

    Had a few sensory overload moments and right at end was stressful because I had to look after her cousin whom was extremely drunk
  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,406 Boards Champion
    Well done for doing it Benson
  • BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
    AnonymousToe wrote: »
    Well done for doing it Benson

    Only did it because my friend semi asked me too

    I offered because she was worried about her cousin
  • Orchid059Orchid059 Moderator Posts: 318 The Mix Regular
    BensonE wrote: »
    Orchid059 wrote: »
    Hi @BensonE I'm glad to hear that it went well. Did you enjoy yourself?

    Had a few sensory overload moments and right at end was stressful because I had to look after her cousin whom was extremely drunk

    Social occasions can be very overwhelming so well done for going as that takes a lot of courage. And also well done for stepping up and offering to look after your friend's cousin because that must have been stressful for you, especially because you don't know her
  • BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
    Orchid059 wrote: »
    BensonE wrote: »
    Orchid059 wrote: »
    Hi @BensonE I'm glad to hear that it went well. Did you enjoy yourself?

    Had a few sensory overload moments and right at end was stressful because I had to look after her cousin whom was extremely drunk

    Social occasions can be very overwhelming so well done for going as that takes a lot of courage. And also well done for stepping up and offering to look after your friend's cousin because that must have been stressful for you, especially because you don't know her

    It's not first I look after people I barely know
  • AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 2,103 Boards Champion
    Hey @BensonE, just wanted to drop by and say well done for going to the party! It's really nice of you to look after your friend's cousin, I'm sure they really appreciated it and it's not an easy situation to handle. And if your friend's mum likes you, that's a big win too! B)
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Champion Posts: 608 Incredible Poster
    BensonE wrote: »
    Who wants a update
    AnonymousToe wrote: »
    How did it go?

    I think her mum likes me based on the few convos we had yesterday

    And I think rest of her family think I'm welsh based on how I was introduced to them

    im glad it went well benson <3
  • BensonEBensonE Posts: 189 Helping Hand
    Azziman wrote: »
    Hey @BensonE, just wanted to drop by and say well done for going to the party! It's really nice of you to look after your friend's cousin, I'm sure they really appreciated it and it's not an easy situation to handle. And if your friend's mum likes you, that's a big win too! B)

    Tbh I've always been that friend that always been liked by my friends parents
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