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I give up with relationships

RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,816 The Mix Elder
in Sex & Relationships
Im so fucking done with relationships, there fucking stupid at least all mine. I cant even be bothered with love anymore. I had a conversation with my soon to be ex boyfriend and told him that I dont want a shit relationship and he promised it wouldn't be yet I should of known that it ment nothing to him. Thought he actually loved me I wish I said no to him when he asked me out.

All he does is go on and on about another girl it's always "(name) this, (name) that" we can't even have a conversation without him bringing her up. And when we were cuddling all he did was talk about her. Im not jealous and I dont care if he likes her but I wish he would fucking say that, I cant cope with it it makes me feel like a last option. Then when she's around especially at school he just blanks me and won't even sit with me or nothing.

Im done with relationships they feel like heart ruiners, never want to be in another relationship again :|

Sorry for the rant
Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.

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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,437 Part of The Furniture
    This sounds really painful for you @River. As you say, it would not feel so bad if he was open with you about his feelings. However, constantly talking about someone else and not paying you any attention when you are supposed to be in a relationship together sounds really hurtful :/ How have things been more recently?
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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,816 The Mix Elder
    @Laura_tigger82 horrendous, he told school that I make him not want to go in, he keeps harrassing me to point that I had to change all social media names and ive having to get new number
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,816 The Mix Elder
    @shadoworId_24 sorry to hear that <3 every relationship I've been in has been the same but this time was the worst, I have so many regrets :/
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,816 The Mix Elder
    edited November 2023
    I won't bully you and this please is a safe place :) here for you and my pms are open if u ever need to chat <3@shadoworId_24
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,816 The Mix Elder
    Huh....
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
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