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  • lunarcat522lunarcat522 Posts: 609 Incredible Poster
    @Chloe234 It must be really difficult having to go back to school when you have so much on your mind. I also had a rough time at school and often hid in the toilets too. Do you think you could talk to someone at school about how you're feeling about going back?

    I personally had reduced timetables and did a lot of self-directed learning as I couldn't cope with attending some of my classes. There are also online forms of study for GCSE's but I appreciate this may not be possible due to costs. Have you looked at any study websites or channels on Youtube? I've sometimes found that they've helped me when I'm not understanding things.

    I did 'An Inspector Calls' at school so I might be able to help with that but it was for Nat 5 English, so it might be different if you're doing it in drama?

    As for leaving school, it's completely natural to be scared about moving on but I understand it's incredibly difficult regardless when you're going through it.

    I left school a year before prom so I can't really say what it's like but you could maybe find clothing like dresses with mesh sleeves so that any scars etc are less obvious. Scars aren't something to be ashamed of but I completely get why it's something you'd be self-conscious about. I've searched up 'skin sleeves' and 'tattoo cover up sleeves' and there's a few results but I'm not sure whether this is something you'd be interested in? Not sure if it would hurt wearing and there might be differences in skin tone etc so it may be beneficial to get concealer/foundation matching as close as possible to the tone?

    Tights might also be a good shout? For arms even something like a cardigan/shawl and you could just say you get cold really easily. I'm not sure how much others know about your scars/sh but you could get some sort of cover up like the sleeves and if people ask just say you have a skin condition that means you need it.

    I've added a few links of dresses with sleeves just to give an idea of what I'm talking about, but just do what's best for you

    https://jjshouse.co.uk/ball-gown-princess-v-neck-floor-length-satin-prom-dresses-with-beading-sequins-018220257-g220257?country=GB&currency=GBP

    https://zapaka.co.uk/products/off-shoulder-long-sleeves-prom-dress-with-ruffles

    Either way it's no one else's business and if people are reacting negatively then they're the wrong people for you. Worst comes to worst, you don't have to go, or you could leave early? You could maybe even suggest having your own prom with close friends earlier/later that day or at some point to ease the pressure a bit?

    So sorry to hear you're struggling at the moment, I'm here for you if you need anything <3
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,414 Boards Champion
    Hey @Chloe234, just wanted to chime in here. I hear that it's quite a difficult time for you. Going back to school can be difficult at the best of times, but it sounds like you have a lot on your plate. You're doing ever so well to keep going <3

    I'd agree with @lunarcat522, it's a good idea to speak to someone at school about how you're feeling, and whether there's any support they can offer you for your return. Perhaps a school counsellor, a head of year, or a teacher that you feel you can trust?

    For the year ahead, I'd simply say, take each day as it comes. Talk to your teachers about how you're getting on with work, and they might be able to offer some extra help to get you up to speed if you'd find that helpful. Prom is also a long time away, and there's ways to use outfits/makeup to cover up scars if that worries you.

    I can understand feeling scared after moving on from school. It can feel uncomfortable to know that a time will come when those teachers that have supported you won't be there for you every day. And that's completely natural, there'll be plenty of people in your class who'll share that feeling. All I'd say is, enjoy that last year with them while you have it. Some teachers that we meet in our lives can make a huge impression on us :)
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 271 The Mix Regular
    Hi @Chloe234 , I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. Going back to school and dealing with academic pressures can be incredibly challenging, especially when you're also dealing with mental health concerns. It's important to prioritize your well-being during this time. You can try to talk to someone, seek support, and set boundaries. You don't have to go through this alone!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Me Posts: 11 Settling in
    Hi @Chloe234
    Remember that your grades don’t define you. You are more important than them. I agree with the others too. Talking to someone at school might be the best way to make the year easier. You spent loads of time in school, so your school should make sure it’s a comfortable and supportive environment for you.
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