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ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,755 The Mix Elder
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why dont we focus on ourselves, someone told me 'its not ur job'
Crazy mad insane

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,327 Wise Owl
    Hi @ellie2000, when you say someone told you it's 'not your job', were you trying to help someone at the time?
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,755 The Mix Elder
    i opened to my therapist about mum fretting n i asked my therapist about calming her down n she sed tht it not my job
    eeerrrrr..... wats?
    Crazy mad insane
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,437 Part of The Furniture
    Hi @ellie2000

    Thanks for your response and clarification as it means we can support you the most effectively we can. It would seem that your therapist meant that they hear your concerns but you have lots of other responsibilities and calming your mum down is someone else's responsibility. You have a lot on your shoulders already but I can understand that you care about your mum and may think it is your responsibility. I hope this helps <3
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 6 Confirmed not a robot
    Hey @ellie2000
    Yeah I think they mean that it is not completely down to you to help and sometimes people need to deal with things themselves. I think your therapist just meant it in a way of not putting too much pressure on yourself. Hope everything works out!
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,437 Part of The Furniture
    Hi @harpreet

    Thanks for also looking out for @ellie2000 and helping to explain :)

    How are things today @ellie2000? <3
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