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  • Former MemberFormer Member Ex-Teenage Dirtbag Posts: 804 Part of The Mix Family
    Damn @Passionflower hope you feel better soon
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 123 The Mix Convert
    @Apollo Thank you. How are you doing?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Ex-Teenage Dirtbag Posts: 804 Part of The Mix Family
    Not great how about you @Passionflower
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    @Passionflower I'm sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?

    I'm recovering. Went to a friend's house to catch up because I haven't been responding to any calls lately.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 123 The Mix Convert
    @Apollo I'm sorry to hear that you're not feeling great. Is there anything in particular making you feel that way that you'd like to talk about? I'm still not doing amazingly but I'm trying to stay a bit more positive

    @lovemimoon I don't need to at the moment but thank you. I'm glad that you were able to catch up with your friend. How did it go?
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    @Passionflower Hey! How are you???

    It went really good. Just laid out all the worries and thoughts. Then we talked about the past, moments that made us worry, people we've encountered, etc.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 123 The Mix Convert
    edited May 2021
    @lovemimoon It's great to hear that it went well and that you managed to get things sorted! I'm still not feeling the best but I'm just trying to kill the time before I fall asleep. I hope that I can fall asleep slightly earlier tonight as I woke up a bit earlier this morning. What have you been up to today?
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    @Passionflower I'm sorry to hear that, man. I hope everything turns out well! <3
    Hopefully, you rest well.

    Tbh. I've been reconsidering my relationships.
    This is a tricky one because it's a group dynamic. If possible, can you give me some insight?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 123 The Mix Convert
    @lovemimoon Thank you <3 It must be difficult to have to question your relationships. Is there a particular reason why you're reconsidering them? Also, when you mention that it's a group dynamic, what additional challenges do you think that this might give rise to?
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    @Passionflower

    It's one of those 'fight one, fight all' group dynamics. See, I love them and unfortunately, I did something incredibly damaging and I lost a friend because of that.

    I've been friends with this group for quite a long time but I can't help but feel like I've lost myself. I don't recognize the person that I am anymore. One of them sent a particular message that resulted in a really bad 'rage attack' - or it's like an anxiety attack but it's anger, and I haven't responded to them since.
    If we were to address the dynamic individually, I've equally had conflicting thoughts about them, particularly due to a weird dynamic I've had with them so having that in a group is overwhelming.
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Morning
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    edited September 2024
    Morning @Past User
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    You okay? @lovemimoon
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    edited September 2024
    I've been better. You? @Past User
    How have you been?
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Much of the same @lovemimoon could be better and could be worse. Still finding myself being anxious most days but the worst of it seems to have passed.

    Anything you wanna talk about? What've you been up to, to pass the time?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 28 Boards Initiate
    Hey guys! How is everyone
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    Hey @m3gan04

    I'm doing well! What about you??
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hey @m3gan04
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 123 The Mix Convert
    @lovemimoon Ah I can hear how much more challenging it is for you because if you have a conflict with one member of the group, then you feel as though you are in conflict with the rest of the group too. Honestly, it sounds like such a stressful situation :( Do you have an idea of how best to approach this situation? What kind of outcome are you hoping for?
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    @Passionflower Tbh. I'm gonna cut them off. I love them but loving them isn't enough sometimes.
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Morning guys
  • Former MemberFormer Member Ex-Teenage Dirtbag Posts: 804 Part of The Mix Family
    edited September 2024
    Sup @Past User
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • DancerDancer Community Connector Posts: 8,143 Legendary Poster
    edited May 2021
    I found a funny meme online but not really sure if it would be appropriate for The Mix. 😂
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    How are you? @Apollo
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 9,785 Supreme Poster
    Morning
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    Morning everyone
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 9,785 Supreme Poster
    Morning! How are you @lovemimoon?
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    I'm okay! How are you @independent_ ??
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 9,785 Supreme Poster
    Had better days @lovemimoon I hardly got any sleep and just meh haha. I'm glad you're ok, I'm just putting hash browns in the oven woo
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hash browns? Lovely. I'm gonna have some pizza :) I mistook the hugs thread for this one last night :p

    Glad you're okay too @lovemimoon

    You guys up to much today?
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