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3 months

LubnaLubna Posts: 496 Listening Ear
edited October 2019 in Home, Law & Money
I have 3 months until my rapist is released that makes me want to succesfully die but it also makes me very strong for surviving the attempts I have made. I won't evan know the day his released until his been released though I think that is so unfair😡 his been in for 4 and 1/2 years.

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  • Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Aww Lubna, I don't blame you for feeling this way <3

    Lubna said:
    that makes me want to succesfully die but it also makes me very strong for surviving the attempts I have made.
    You are. For surviving the attempts you've made, and also for going through this <3
  • ShaunieShaunie Posts: 13,224 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Here for you <3 cant imagine how much feel but i hope we can help <3
  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    Sending massive hugs, we're always here if you need us, sorry I ant offer more advice <3
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
  • DancerDancer Bog Off Justine! Posts: 5,868 Part of The Furniture
    I understand that you are feeling scared about your rapist being released. You still have just over 2 months left. Try and maybe get a restraining order against your rapist (at least not being allowed within 2 miles.)
    I'm a fruit loop. 🍊➰

    There's a part of me I can't get back.  A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same.
  • LubnaLubna Posts: 496 Listening Ear
    I'm not sure how you go about getting a restraining order against someone.
  • mags98mags98 Posts: 287 Moderator
    Hi @Lubna

    I came across this website called Rights of Women. I'm not sure how it all works but I attach a link which gives you some contact details to get some free and confidential legal advice for different areas of law. It can get complicated and daunting trying to figure out/reading about what can be done to help you with his release (and the police aren't always the biggest help) so maybe the Rights of Women might be of some help.

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