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3 months

Former MemberFormer Member Deactivated Posts: 496 Listening Ear
edited October 2019 in Home, Law & Money
I have 3 months until my rapist is released that makes me want to succesfully die but it also makes me very strong for surviving the attempts I have made. I won't evan know the day his released until his been released though I think that is so unfair😡 his been in for 4 and 1/2 years.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Aww Lubna, I don't blame you for feeling this way <3

    Lubna said:
    that makes me want to succesfully die but it also makes me very strong for surviving the attempts I have made.
    You are. For surviving the attempts you've made, and also for going through this <3
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    Here for you <3 cant imagine how much feel but i hope we can help <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    Sending massive hugs, we're always here if you need us, sorry I ant offer more advice <3
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 8,103 Legendary Poster
    I understand that you are feeling scared about your rapist being released. You still have just over 2 months left. Try and maybe get a restraining order against your rapist (at least not being allowed within 2 miles.)
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Deactivated Posts: 496 Listening Ear
    I'm not sure how you go about getting a restraining order against someone.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 287 The Mix Regular
    edited September 18
    Hi @Past User

    I came across this website called Rights of Women. I'm not sure how it all works but I attach a link which gives you some contact details to get some free and confidential legal advice for different areas of law. It can get complicated and daunting trying to figure out/reading about what can be done to help you with his release (and the police aren't always the biggest help) so maybe the Rights of Women might be of some help.

    https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-advice/
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