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Hi, my name is fixit!

fixitfixit Posts: 1 Just got here
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Hi, there's a problem that this lady won't share with me because she thinks she's better than me, she won't accept that she's not better than me and she doesn't care, help

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  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,493 Skive's The Limit
    Hey
    welcome to the site

    would you feel comfortable going into a lil bit more detail. Who is this lady and what sort of problem do you think it is?  

    Im guessing youve tried leveling with her and saying none of you are better than the other and try to get her to understand you just wanna help?

    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • AifeAife Community Manager Posts: 3,031 Boards Guru
    Hey @fixit

    Welcome to the boards :)

    I'm sorry to hear about what's going on, I hope you're okay. We're all here to listen and help support you through this :) 

    - Aife
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
  • EyepatchEyepatch Posts: 666 Incredible Poster
    Hi!

    Welcome to the Mix :) 

    If they won't share it perhaps they are stubborn and too prideful to ask for help? There might be a time where she learns that its okay to ask others for help, but until then try to remain positive and open so that she knows she can come to you if she needs help at anytime :) 
    "Sometimes we find ourselves stuck between choosing what is right, and what is easy." 
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hi @fixit Interesting name you have. Welcome to the board.

    Mandy
  • AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 1,851 Extreme Poster
    Hey fixit,

    Welcome!x

    Much love <3
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Just got here
    Just love your name, fixit! Do you do DIY? I used to love it, but having to wait since having a heart op.

    Welcome to The Mix! And have a good weekend.  :)
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