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I hate university

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Noob
    Meggles wrote: »
    My dissertation can go roll off a cliff. I'm so over this stress.

    I regret uni.

    University is stressful, but you must go through it to get that all important degree. Think of how much you have learnt, Meggles. Think of how far you have come! Don't give up, you'll muddle through all this, but you got to pace yourself like Belle.

    Come back after an hour or so, draft out some more for about an hour or so - then take a welcome break. This is what Belle is doing with her BSc online degree course. They are piling on the work, but she's plodding on and doing brilliantly having just finished a 10,000 word biggy.
    I'm driven by self doubt.
  • FranFran Posts: 118 The Mix convert
    Hey Meggles!!

    Why do you say that? Is it a thought you have always had or does it depend on something specific that has just happened?
    Feel free to talk *hug*

    - Fran
  • Invisible_meInvisible_me Posts: 136 The Mix convert
    Hi @Meggles

    Can I ask what year of uni you are in? Disertations and university in general is stressful and you can have a rather lot on your plate at once. But I trust you that you can get through this. I am sure you have had many other assignments/projects and dissertations before that have caused the stress- How have you/did you get through time?- Is there anything you ca do for this one. Trust me, before you know it, you will have completed the dissertation: it will pass eventually. Though, it may be hard to think so at the moment.

    I often find, that actually once you have made a start on the assignment it all isn't as bad as you think. It can be hard making a start but once you have it all gets that bit easier.

    Take care,
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 5,796 The Mix Elder
    Meggles wrote: »
    I FINISHED MY DISSERTATION 2 DAYS BEFORE DEADLINE

    YAY THATS GREAT. Well done for finishing 😊
    I've learnt two people can look at the exact same thing and see something completly different. 
  • AifeAife LondonPosts: 1,968 Staff Moderator
    Yayy well done @Meggles! You've worked so hard for this! You should be really proud of yourself :yippe:
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
  • Invisible_meInvisible_me Posts: 136 The Mix convert
    Meggles wrote: »
    I FINISHED MY DISSERTATION 2 DAYS BEFORE DEADLINE

    Hey Meggles,

    That's brilliant!- Well done! Excellent work. Considering how stressed you were (it sounded per by your message) and you completed the assignment- not on the deadline but 2 days before. That's great!

    Keep going with this high.

    In_me
  • WnkicexaWnkicexa Posts: 2 Newbie
    I had similar thoughts when I wrote my dissertation. by the way, I finished it 2 hours before the deadline. but I don't recommend this extreme :D just realize, you have to finish the dissertation and be done with it. if things get too much, some of my mates ask for academic assistance here https://essayshark.com/ and successfully finished their works on time
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  • Invisible_meInvisible_me Posts: 136 The Mix convert
    Meggles said:
    I failed my dissertation. How brilliant is that
    Ohh @Meggles.

    That is a shame. You worked really hard for it though and most certainly put a lot of effort in it. Remeber the grade doesn't reflect your effort.  It's a shame but see it as an opportunity to almost reflect and develop as a academic person. 

    I know it's horrible and really hard and annoying- been in that situation. But it's OK!  

    How much did you lose the pass by?  Have a look at the comments and using that go through the whole of your work. Can you see what they mean? Thenybook a tutorial with the lecturer and they can help you go through it.  How does that sound? 

    Please keep going. And you worked extremely hard. Keep going x
    In-me
  • AzzimanAzziman Posts: 496 Rampant Poster
    Hi Meggles,

    Sorry to hear that - like In_me said, it's not for a lack of effort! Definitely would recommend going through the comments - it helps to understand where something didn't go quite right. Keep on going!x

    Much love <3
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