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was it rape? sexual harassment?
I went to a party last night and I don't know what to do about what happened. I got really drunk and this guy who I didn't know was there and we somehow ended up making out in a cupboard. I left and was drinking and then he found me and took me upstairs and I ended up giving him a bj. I didn't want to anymore so I left and went back to my friends dancing and drinking and then everything becomes a blur and I end up in the woods alone with this guy and I guess we were making out I can't really remember but then he was taking my belt off and my trousers and I'm a Virginia so I said 'no' 'wait' 'please' he didn't have a condom on either he said he would buy me the morning after pill but I said no again but he did it anyway. I didn't fight him off, I wasn't even aware of what I was doing I was barely conscious. My friends came looking for me so he left and my trousers and underwear were off and my top was above my boobs. I could barely stand and I don't know how I made it back to the party but I did. I woke up this morning and it hurts. I don't know who his guy is and I don't know what to do, I'm stared and feel like crying all the time. Please help. What what's this? What do I do?