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I agree with this, there's a balance to be found between the two
Yeah of course however for her to get to the level where I'm nuts about her then there's a reasonable assumption she knows how to look after herself. Personal hygiene (for both parties) is a must but I'm talking about her 'fat' days, bad hair days and when she *actually* has got nothing to wear. If we're planning a vegging-out day then she doesn't need to get her slap on. This is what I mean, in that instance I couldn't care less if she stays in her podgies all day, hair scraped back and not a trace of make-up.
yes, that might be you, but believe me, I have met my fair share of girls who feel "as if they are treated like a slut" if it's just about the shag for you and you don't court her weeks beforehand, even tho all the does want, is in fact, a shag.
Well a bit of courtesy and niceness doesnt go amiss rather than just fuck and go but there's a difference between that and being so nice i think you're actually interested in me
I think what you really wish for is for them being able to read your mind, because - and sorry in advance for the allegation - what I think you really want is, to have the guys YOU want to shag come forward with it, and not every kind of loser creep. So it's not about a "guys, please do this", but a "guys I find hot, please do this, because I can't do it myself.", hm?
Actually the guy i was referring mainly to i would have shagged if he had gone about it in the right way. He made me think i was interested when all he wanted was sex. I then asked him out thinking he was interested and he suddenly was 'seeing someone'. All i was saying was that he could have been a bit more upfront about what he wanted in the first place rather than trying to trick me into bed.
Fair enough, let me just tell you from my limited experience that purely measured on success rate (and not on fairness or whatever), your best bet is to act as if you are interested in her as a whole, by far at that. So he might have known what he was doing.
Yea he probably did, i got that kind of vibe from him