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Virginity :'(
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I'm so desperate to lose it, and i've lied to everyone that i'm not, and i'm some massive whore, what shall i do. No one wants to sleep with me
I know i'm only 16 but, eugh help
And i really like this girl, but she lives miles away, and she's younger than me and we only talk occasionally online, and she's in love with her ex. Bad times.
I know i'm only 16 but, eugh help
And i really like this girl, but she lives miles away, and she's younger than me and we only talk occasionally online, and she's in love with her ex. Bad times.
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I really would not get to hung up on this, i realise its frustrating but it will happen soon enough.
I am 18 and still a virgin see i said it and the world is still turning :d
Sex isn't the be all and end all of life. It's fun, yeah, but it's not worth stressing over. It's only a big deal because you've made it one.
Wow... You sure'll get some PMs after this message I thought you are rather attractive (in a non-homo way)
Oh yea, of course...
If it's the label then you don't have to worry about that- you've already told the lie, just keep it up.
If you want intimacy and a shared physical relationship with someone then you'll first have to work on meeting a nice person. Then you'll need to be mutually romantic with each other, then have a loving sexual experience.
If you just want to get laid? You could hang out at the park (or wherever your adventurous types hang out). Take a condom, doing it up the arse is NO protection -use a condom. Maybe loosen the atmosphere with a drink, but not too much (dpn't wanna dampen the wood). Go with one who is offering, not one needing to be persuaded. Make sure they're not too wasted to know what they're getting up to. Use a condom. Have sex. Leave park. Virginity gone.
But i feel like OP actually wants a relationship rather than a quickie down the park?
That is a massive generalisation that is not necessarily true.
:wave:
You are ready when you are ready. So long as you are comfortable with what you are doing, and you are safe, then what's the problem?
&& being a whores not a good thing lol girls will think if they shag u u won't give a fuck about them lol
just wait till you find the right person, u should only worry if your like the 40 year old person lool
loads people who are 16 are virgins its fine
Are you massively idle in your leisure time? You know an idle mind is the devil's playground. Don't sit at home lonely and get down of being a virgin. Go out, meet your friends, do sports and suddenly this whole virgin thing does not matter anymore.