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Former Member · February 2011

katralla I love you.

That is all I have to say.

Former Member · February 2011

so fluid I changed species :razz:

Former Member · February 2011

Spliffie wrote: »

Sure, the same is true for me. When I say fixed, I don't mean you will *always* find the same stuff arousing, but the locus for your attraction is generally fixed. For example, my sexuality is fixed in the sense I am heterosexual, I do not nor will I ever want to take it up the arse or give it up the arse (to a man, that is) but in terms of sex with women, my fantasies and preferences change and evolve over time.

Some people may deny their sexuality, then embrace it, but there is no fluidity in this.

Being gay doesn't mean you take it up the arse. I hate when people assign that to homosexuality. But I see sexuality as ever changing. I don't think your sexuality will be the same forever, but it certainly can change. Depends if it will for you. It did for me. That's also to say if you want to experiment, with or without initial sexual attraction, you could always just try new things - if you have that kind of mind.

Former Member · February 2011

JavaKrypt wrote: »

Being gay doesn't mean you take it up the arse. I hate when people assign that to homosexuality.

I never said it did. Being gays means you either take it up the arse or give it up the arse, which is clearly suggested in my previous post when I said I would neither give nor take.

Perhaps you were responding to another post but replied to mine by accident?

Former Member · February 2011

You're confusing, you've just said it again.

Former Member · February 2011

Spliffie wrote: »

Being gays means you either take it up the arse or give it up the arse, which is clearly suggested in my previous post when I said I would neither give nor take.

Sigh.

Former Member · February 2011

Spliffie wrote: »

I never said it did. Being gays means you either take it up the arse or give it up the arse, which is clearly suggested in my previous post when I said I would neither give nor take.

Oh for fuck's sake.

Former Member · February 2011

Spliffie wrote: »

Being gays means you either take it up the arse or give it up the arse

One guy I used to have sex with took it up the arse every now and then. From me, a woman. Does this make him gay?

:chin:

Former Member · February 2011

'Course it does. You're also a raging queer if your girlfriend puts her finger up your bum when giving you a blowjob, or if you buy a butt plug, or a prostate massager, or an anal dildo. After all, only gaylords like bum play.

:rolleyes:

Former Member · February 2011

Equally, I've just remembered that a gay couple I'm friends with once told me (in a moment of drunken over-sharing) that they never do it up the bum either way - they only do hand jobs and blow jobs.

I guess they can't be gay after all :razz:

Former Member · February 2011

jamelia wrote: »

Equally, I've just remembered that a gay couple I'm friends with once told me (in a moment of drunken over-sharing) that they never do it up the bum either way - they only do hand jobs and blow jobs.

That's like being permanently stuck at third base!

Former Member · February 2011

"Bumplay" does not equate to homosexuality. A man having a prostrate massage or some form of anal stimulation performed by a woman is not a homosexual act, it is however a homosexual act when performed by a man.

Artic Roll, you need to get over the habit of reading what you would like to read in a post you disagree with so you can set up a straw man, oblivious to what has been *actually* stated.

Now, obviously you enjoy anal stimulation presumably with women but do you enjoy having men penetrate you anally? Does this thought excite you?

I only ask this because it will lead to the verification of my point - or at least, I think it will....? :thumb:

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