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want my boyfriend to give a blowjob

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If my partner seriously said that to me, firstly i would feel sick in the pit of my stomach as the mental image of a guys cock in my mouth flew through my thought process, then i wouldnt blink for about a minute, then id try reprocessing the information along with the added threat of no more blowjobs for me... Id wonder if shes being serious, then ask her if shes being serious.

    That would be a real head messer for me about how her mind works, the answer would definately be no.

    I would never pester her to let me try anal again :crazyeyes thats for sure.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sepumseeme wrote: »
    If my partner seriously said that to me, firstly i would feel sick in the pit of my stomach as the mental image of a guys cock in my mouth flew through my thought process, then i wouldnt blink for about a minute, then id try reprocessing the information along with the added threat of no more blowjobs for me... Id wonder if shes being serious, then ask her if shes being serious.

    Don't think of a guy's cock in your mouth.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thats fuckin crazy :| try making him suck a banana or somethin, but asking him to suck another boy is is just naaaaaaasty :|
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Blackmail is no way to get what you want, as sex should be fun and that would just add pressure to your relationship, if this is a kinky fantasie of yours you should be more descreet about how you put it to him, but if its just for him to no what you feel like whats the point, he will never come to the party...Cheers:)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that is horrible, I would never want my bf to do that
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm bi and I had to do this once cause the girl got off to it and i didn't mind to much tho I like being the man of it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like to think that most people are bi, and that most people don't know it (till I turn 'em).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i find this very weird and the only way he would suck another guy of is if he was bi sexual :p i don't think you should ask him to do this, just sounds wrong on all levels !
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know why she wants to see to see him suck cock, it's something mentioned thus far by no-one but considered by most.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    I like to think that most people are bi, and that most people don't know it (till I turn 'em).
    Even spaghetti is straight until you get it hot and wet.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    piccolo wrote: »
    Even spaghetti is straight until you get it hot and wet.
    Hahaha love it :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    crazy shit, surely it's asking him to be gay. Just deepthroat him if you don't mind doing it and if you want him to do something for you in the future he will be willing to try it without making you go down on a woman.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not asking him to be gay, sexuality doesn't work like that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not be gay but perform a gay act. He has not chosen that lifestyle so should not be blackmailed (which is what this is at the end of the day) into it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    JavaKrypt wrote: »
    It's not asking him to be gay, sexuality doesn't work like that.

    It's asking him to perform a homosexual act. How does sexuality work, out of interest?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Never said it wasn't asking him to perform a gay act, but it's still not asking him to be gay. You know how sexuality works.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    JavaKrypt wrote: »
    Never said it wasn't asking him to perform a gay act, but it's still not asking him to be gay. You know how sexuality works.

    Do I? Obviously I don't - so please, enlighten me?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think of sexuality as fluid. How do you think of it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    I think of sexuality as fluid. How do you think of it?

    Define what you mean by fluid.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not fixed, or static by nature, though it can be still.

    What are your thoughts on sexuality Spliffie?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    not fixed, or static by nature, though it can be still.

    What are your thoughts on sexuality Spliffie?

    Well, that's a rather expansive question. Why don't you tell me what you think my view of sexuality is?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't know what your view of sexuality is, I am interested in finding out though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    I don't know what your view of sexuality is, I am interested in finding out though.

    It's too expansive a question - but in terms of being fixed or fluid, I say its fixed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am definitely not sexually aroused by the same things I used to be, can this fit into your theory of sexuality as fixed?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    I am definitely not sexually aroused by the same things I used to be, can this fit into your theory of sexuality as fixed?

    Sure, the same is true for me. When I say fixed, I don't mean you will *always* find the same stuff arousing, but the locus for your attraction is generally fixed. For example, my sexuality is fixed in the sense I am heterosexual, I do not nor will I ever want to take it up the arse or give it up the arse (to a man, that is) but in terms of sex with women, my fantasies and preferences change and evolve over time.

    Some people may deny their sexuality, then embrace it, but there is no fluidity in this.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What if the locus for my attraction has changed over time, how then would I fit in to your theory of fixed sexuality- as an anomaly?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    What if the locus for my attraction has changed over time, how then would I fit in to your theory of fixed sexuality- as an anomaly?

    I don't know the details, I can't see inside your psyche...so I couldn't comment.

    If the locus of my attraction hasn't changed, nor has the locus of most others, doesn that mean we are anamolies in your theory of fluid sexuality?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nope, it just means you're sitting still, perhaps within the walls of some container.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    Nope, it just means you're sitting still, perhaps within the walls of some container.

    Tell me, what was your original locus, and what is it now?

    By any chance, were you initially attracted to men and women but having encountered myself on here you are now solely spliffie-sexual? Is this why you believe in sexual fluidity? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes
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