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want my boyfriend to give a blowjob
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I kinda want my boyfriend to give someone a blowjob while I watch as I want him to know what it's like, especially as he wants me to try deepthroating him, which I don't mind trying, just think it would be nice if he knew what it was like to do it
guys, would most of you be ok with doing this if your girl asked you to? what if she said she wouldn't give you head again if you didn't?
thanks,
alice
guys, would most of you be ok with doing this if your girl asked you to? what if she said she wouldn't give you head again if you didn't?
thanks,
alice
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I would not do it and if you blackmail me with withdrawal of whatever if I don't suck off another dude you are going to be dumped.
The estimates of him sucking off a phallic object like a cucumber or your vibrator, just so he satisfy your need that he must know what it's like may be a big higher, lets say 3%, if you promise to not tell his friends.
No, I was on about in the way in which she wants him to have the same experience...
I could understand wanting to ask this if you weren't comfortable doing it, and were having to deal with persuausion - but you say you're OK with the idea.
* ETA: I'm thinking going down on a "deployed" Tantus Feeldoe might be close
I think we have a volunteer
As other posters have said, only agreeing to give your bf head if he does it to someone else is a big no no, as it could makes things very uncomfortable for both of you. He probably wont like it if you try to force or trick him into doing something he's set against.
Guess it all depends on how comfortable your bf is with his sexuality. You might be best off bringing it up if you get talking about any fantasies you both have, and guage his reaction.
Also how easy would it be, to find a guy which wouldn't mind your boyfriend sucking his dick...
Also, your boyfriend is yours? And well that kinda tells me he is straight, if you seriously suggest this to him... He's not going to, he's probably going to slap you and go silly bitch >.<
Probably quite easy
I won't try blackmailing him into it, might suggest that we get together with another couple though
he's not being too rough or anything, I like giving him head
I don't think I'd be asking him to bend his sexuality. If he could give himself head I'd ask him to do that, lol.
thanks for your help though
A cucumber is pretty much enough, if it's just about having a phallic item in your mouth you might gag on.
You just want to watch your boyfriend suck off another dude, admit it.
There is really no sensible reason why he should be doing this, and yes you are very much asking him to bend his sexuality. Whacking off, and giving a handjob to another dude are two entirely different things. Counts for blowing too.
I mean, if you are lucky and he's a bit bi you could have success, but don't force it, you'll probably alienate your boyfriend and lose him in the process.
yeah, I do want to watch him do it, but also I think guys should know what it's like to do it.
don't see what the big deal is, it's just a penis, we suck them all the time.
I don't think girls would be so opposed to going down on another girl.
anyone agree ?
i still dont understand if this is for your sexual gratification because when you say stuff like 'he should know how it feels' it seems as though you dont like doing it so he should see what an ordeal it is?
If you want him to know what cum tastes like get him to jack off onto the cucumber first. Asking him to give head to another guy is most likely going to lead to him telling you where to go.
Oi!
Yes, you suck them all the time, because you are a girl and attracted to men. I don't want to have oral sex with another man, because it repulses me. Yes, that's how sexual orientation works, go figure.
And I do not agree that girls wouldn't be as opposed to go down on another girl, just because your partner wants to watch and let you know how it is, for WHATEVER reason there might be.
Why would he even want to know how it is? Have you ever had a fist punch to the nose? It's an exhilarating experience. So how would you like if your boyfriend was beat up and he'd like you to know how it is to be rolled in the fetal position on the ground begging for the kicks and punches to stop and not being able to move because of pain?
A while ago my girlfriend and I got in to 3somes for a short while and she waited till we were in the middle of an encounter with a male friend of ours before asking us both to do it for her, we did, wasn't a problem for either of us and she still gets off talking about it in bed!
But, unless he is bi, it won't be. He doesn't necessarily have the same physical attraction.
I'm not sure what she is actually trying to achieve here. So he will know what it's like to have a cock in your mouth and someone cumming. Then what?
I could understand if it was a turn on for her, but I'm not getting the sense that this is her reasoning.
Is he gay or bi-sexual?
my girlfriend would go apeshit if i asked her to go down on another girl before i ever do it to her.
likewise, i wouldn't be very impressed if my girlfriend wanted me to suck off a guy before she ever did the same to me.
unless you're in a very loose/open relationship and you have a bf who is VERY curious, this has got trouble written all over it.
sorry
i wanted my x girlfriend 2 have more sex and try different things she did she slept with half my mates and tryed a relationship with a different man DONT WISH 2 HARD lol
Seriously, it's not always fun sucking a cock... I'll be the first to raise my glass to that, but it is always fun watching how much they love it.
I don't guilt my partner about it, I don't tell him how hard it is not to gag, and I don't even want him to know. I want him to think I'm having the time of my life, because that makes him happy.
This whole attitude sounds like a guilt trip to me.