If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Options
Take a look around and enjoy reading the discussions. If you'd like to join in, it's really easy to register and then you'll be able to post. If you'd like to learn what this place is all about, head here.
Comments
It's only wordplay if there's two intended meanings.
Have you been drinking?
:yes:
I do think its bad etiquette to spit, and i wouldnt do it cos id hate for a guy to act all grossed out, rinsing his mouth or whatever the equivalent would be after giving me oral, and if that happened, i wouldnt want him to do it again. Probably the relationship wouldnt go far.
I do think its up to the individual couple to decide though, and if her condition for giving a BJ was that she didnt have to swallow it afterwards, and he'd still rather get one, then thats fine.
I dont think he should be mean about it afterwards. he should just quietly decide to himself whether he wants to carry on a sexual relationship with her.
I wouldn't blame him for making a fuss. They're kind of gross and stuff.