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My mums' boyfriend..
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Has just split up with her. They've been together for months, and where together for years a couple of years ago.
I really don't know what to say to her She's upset but is trying to hide it, I can tell.
So, any advice? Thanks.
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I really don't know what to say to her She's upset but is trying to hide it, I can tell.
So, any advice? Thanks.
Xx
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She doesn't have much luck with guys... and until she finds another she'll be all depressed and angry. Ohhh god :-( bring on the bad months.
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Hope you are both ok. xxx
ah you replyed as I was posting. apologies
She'll just be angry for months and months.
Fun. Not.
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Sometimes it's not words that's most comforting but the company. I think it might also help the relationship between you and her. Often, adults find it hard to talk as well.
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You're in there Strubss :thumb:
Welll.... I've been watching MrFerrari09's thread....
If StrubbleS won't, I will :thumb:
Dont.Joke.About.Shagging.My.Mum it is just WRONG on SO many levels.
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To be honest, I dont care. Shes had loads of boyfriends and they are always nasty so I doubt she'll go out with anyone anyway!
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Think what you will, as I said before, it's my life. I've TRIED to be nice to her, it doesn't work. It isn't worth my time, I've got bigger things to worry about. And, my dad pays for most things for me actually.
My advice would be that if you feel this strongly against her, I'd give her some space. There is no point burning even more bridges by trying to give her help if you either know or can take a good chance that you two will fall out.
Of course I have never been in your situation B-A and totally understand if you think otherwise to what I say. Just thought I'd add my thoughts. Hope everything is ok with you as I know you've had a rough time lately xxx
you've got no ground to stand on. You don't live here, you don't know me or my mum so you have no idea what happens. We don't get on and it works better for us both when I am either not here, or in another room.
I HATE MY MUM FOR GOOD REASONS, I TRY TO BE NICE WHEN I CAN BUT IT NEVER FUCKING WORKS. Maybe, sometimes I want to be nice to her. But right now, today, she has upset me and I couldn't give a shit about her.
And if I'm honest, I don't care what you think of me.
Jim or any other mod PLEASE just close this thread now.
tell her you know this nice lad from the internet. *applies mouthspray*
/e: on topic: (ok, the first thing was on topic too, but this is more on topic): if you hate your mum and there is no kind of connection between you I can't see any sense in trying to comfort her or talk to her about it. Just carry on with your life.