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Cant get a boner
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My friend came to me for advice but i really didnt know what to tell him.
Hes 14 and he cant seem to get a boner any more. Its been 7 weeks since hes wanked.
He got a new girlfriend but they arent gonna do anything sexual for a long time. But the only time he gets a boner is when she hugs him.
Hes tried watching porn and it dont work.
Hes not gonna get a hand job off his girlfriend so what should he do to get a boner?
Please help. xxxx
Hes 14 and he cant seem to get a boner any more. Its been 7 weeks since hes wanked.
He got a new girlfriend but they arent gonna do anything sexual for a long time. But the only time he gets a boner is when she hugs him.
Hes tried watching porn and it dont work.
Hes not gonna get a hand job off his girlfriend so what should he do to get a boner?
Please help. xxxx
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He cant get a boner.
He dont smoke fags or drugs he doesnt drink and hes not on any other drugs for medical conditions.
Thats where i got confused. Nothings wrong with him but he still cant get a boner.
He should be alright soon enough, im not sure what causes it but it happened to me and im fine now, and i seem to remmeber it happening to my friend.
Its starting to make him grumpy. lol
He really needs a wank.
It didint last as long for me as it seems to have for him though, maybe give it another 2 weeks then tell him if it hasnt got better he should go to a clinic/doctors
just my personal opinion.
Hmmmm ... he hasn't wanked for 7 weeks already. For a 14 year old boy, that has to be the most miserable world record. :impissed:
MonkeySpunk, erectile dysfunction in adult males is usually one of two things - psychological (e.g. anxiety) or medical (blood does not pass sufficiently into his penis). For a 14 year old boy to suffer from either causes would be a concern. He may need to to seek professional advice.
You didn't answer my question earlier though. Does he get a semi? And do you know if he wakes up in the morning with an erection?
I'm not sure what to say, might be a change in his lifestyle at the moment? Anything really bad/drastic happened? For him not to get it up at such a young age is worrying. Seek Professional advice.
Does that mean hes ok?
Hes been through a bad time.
His brother got bet up real bad and got hit in the eye and he went blind in one eye.
And my friend told the guards and he was scared they were gonna come after him too.
But that was two months ago and it dont bother him any more.
His brother was in hospital and got it fixed and hes okay again.
You didn't say whether he wakes up with a boner in the morning or not? Most guys do - usually accompanied with a need to pee.
Once you've told us, I've got an idea on what it might be.
He gets a semi.
And he gets a boner when hes with his girlfriend. Lol
Everyboy gets morning glory, its the bodies way of telling you 'things are working'
I can't understand it really, he does not get morning glory but gets hard round his girlfriend =/
I was going to say He's gay. But It just puzzles me now =/
Its very confusing aint it.
I really dont know what to say to him except give it time!
IF they don't do anything sexual related then I don't see how I needs a stiffy then.
Can't really see the prob here. Everything's just working fine.
He's 14 and he hasn't had an erection in 4 weeks? And doesn't get nocturnal erections? Hmmmmm. :chin:
Get him to the doc. Period.
P.s. Is this your brother or something? He seems to tell you an awful lot ...
He's 14. How could he possibly afford me?
With the current credit crunch, I would of thought you dropped your prices?
Two of my best friends are guys and we tell each other everything from home life, school to masterbation.
That msy sound weird but ive known them for years.
Hes too shy to go to the doctors. Hes scared his mum might find out and give him a huge sex talk and in all fairness, No kid my age wants to here there parents talk about the birds and the bees.