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BillieTheBot
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Right so i got with this girl who ive loved for 3 years, i had a girlfriend in them 3 years which lasted 2 years so i blocked how i feel..now that she is with someone else i got to gether with her which was great, 5 months on and a week ago she broke up with me said i dont talk to her much on windows messenger or i dont see her much in person..which is fair enough
but she said stuff like you make me so happy and your the best boyfriend in the world which is great..but she broke up with me n she just said were going on a break, its been a week or so now and its not looking good
Her best friend is very very very influential and shes a total whore..in a nut shell n my ex isnt like that shes the total opposite shes kind, nice, generous, all the things you would want..but
i want to win her back coz i love her to death but im afraid shes moved on already or herbest mates corrupted her enough so she doesnt love me =[
what do i do, im gonna go round her house when shes at home n talk but i don know what to say...or what would wiin her back..or just be a failure.. i have to wait a week till i can see her coz shes at her dads out of town all week then at her best friend all weekend so i cant see her
PLEASE HELP!!
but she said stuff like you make me so happy and your the best boyfriend in the world which is great..but she broke up with me n she just said were going on a break, its been a week or so now and its not looking good
Her best friend is very very very influential and shes a total whore..in a nut shell n my ex isnt like that shes the total opposite shes kind, nice, generous, all the things you would want..but
i want to win her back coz i love her to death but im afraid shes moved on already or herbest mates corrupted her enough so she doesnt love me =[
what do i do, im gonna go round her house when shes at home n talk but i don know what to say...or what would wiin her back..or just be a failure.. i have to wait a week till i can see her coz shes at her dads out of town all week then at her best friend all weekend so i cant see her
PLEASE HELP!!
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I'd probably just find out for sure if she still cares about you and go from there. You have to talk with her on messenger, talk on the phone and see her once in awhile. If you can't make time for her its probably best to just let her go. Sounds like she wants a relationship with you but you can't find the time for her.
Im totally willing to give most of that up to be with her though.
and were both 15
i think she cares about me but im not certain her friend could tell her not to and she might not anymore ill have to wait till i can see her to make sure..
Also, you're only a young'un, its highly unlikely that she's 'the one' or that you're going to be with her for years to come. So i wouldnt stress over her too much. Just get on with other things and try not to think about her/the situation.
Oh and don't blame her mates, that will only piss her off/make them more inlfuencial to her - remember that she does have her own mind and if she makes a choice about something then although her friends may have some bearing, it's still her choice to make.
she does seem liek the one im not sure if she is though
the thing is everyone in our big group in school knows my ex's best mate is very influenial i dont know why it puzzles me but she is some of my friends have been acting weird when around her its obvious but i dont want the girl i love to be the same shes not like that.. im not blaming her friend at all even tho she may have something to do with her decision if she says no..but its my fault ive admitted it
I plan on going round her house when shes home and well i plan on saying from deep down that im truely sorry and i want to do things right and make you happy..basically but ill make it sound better.
ALSO TO ADD: ive given her space this week shes at her dads for new years and then she gets back this friday then going to he friends for a sleepover so i wont get to see her till the 5th..its really annoying me coz i was planning on seeing her while shes been away not round her friends so she could think about me n her n whats gone on n all that but when she gets back shes seeing her friend so she could even be over me which i cant take right now..
and for the record i dont play WoW i play counterstrike..but as i said im willing to give up my time for her.
@shrekster2005 i asked for advice on how to get the girl back or how to win her over me again not something a man whore would do.
If she doesn't take you back then look at it this way, you're 15 and she won't be the only girl.
Indeed, but I suggest you prepare for the very real possibility that she'll say no.
and i know..all through my mind this past week n a bit is thinkin what if she says no what am i gonna do..im bad at coping.
Even when i try to be positive about it the thought of her declining it will be unbearable.
or anyway?
sure i say i love you and compliment her but..its not enough i dont think
but her friend as i said could swing her away...plus she left me because she didnt wanna get hurt anymore..i dont know how to counter that statement.
@aspire thankyou for noticing.
You're a guy, not a 15 year old girl. No 15 year old girl will see it like that. Not even many adult women see things like that.
Well I personally can't see how showing her this thread would do anything negative.
It shows he obviously gives a shit about her, he hasn't slagged her off or anything.. if she kicks off about it then she's a headcase anyway!
Aspires helping alot more than you.
if it goes well which i doubt so bad then i wont show her this because i would have already got her then i can focus on seeing her more..but if i dont its gnna change my life because shes like my best friend but i cant be her friend because she means so much more
But as i said her friend could just drive her away from me because she is really influencial and them 2 are defensive over each other when someone has a go
Are you on good terms with her friend? Maybe you could get her to pass on a message or something?
Maybe you just want to hear what you want to hear. There's a good chance she'll say no. You have to face up to that. She may say yes, but it seems 50/50 at best.
And I don't recommend showing her this thread as in my experience, which has involved asking my friends for advice, asking her friends for advice, whatever, that on occassions where it's got back to her, she hasn't took it as a compliment. It's usually "oh you've been saying things about me" or some other statement, even though I've been totally headfucked and needed to talk to someone to make sense of it all.
But hey, obviously, my advice means shit to you because you're looking for a 100% happy ending. Well, good luck, seriously.