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am i a bit obessed?
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who am i kidding! course i am....
I cannot stop thinking about sex...i'm fantising about anyone and nearly everyone, i'm having to get myself off about 6 times a day on some days, and its driving me slightly insane! I can't seem to see anyone remotely attractive without ending up wet and its really getting in the way of being mates with some of my more sexualy desirable friends....
someone said i should just go and have some good sex...but its not like i'm getting very many offers any more. and even so...
I've always have a very high sex drive, but how do i make it tone down just a bit?
I cannot stop thinking about sex...i'm fantising about anyone and nearly everyone, i'm having to get myself off about 6 times a day on some days, and its driving me slightly insane! I can't seem to see anyone remotely attractive without ending up wet and its really getting in the way of being mates with some of my more sexualy desirable friends....
someone said i should just go and have some good sex...but its not like i'm getting very many offers any more. and even so...
I've always have a very high sex drive, but how do i make it tone down just a bit?
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You're just a horny young woman, there's not much you can do about it other than go get laid.
Worst thing is after you get some relief you need it again 10 minutes later, it can be thought of as amusing sure but when you feel 'trapped' because you can't do anything without the desire coming on.
Which i think she stated she was having problems with.
Hasnt been working for me.
Hahahahahahaha
Well I thought that wasn't the best advice that was given really, but was often advice that was banded about. The problem is you can feel like you're dependant on it almost. Like 'I'm going to go out now, but oshit, I need to have a wank first'. It's not really a positive thing but more of something you have to do and when your sex drive is really high, something you have to do very frequently. It doesn't get rid of the desire that's deeper though.
I reckon there's a herbal extract out there you could eat that would calm your libido down but I don't know what it is!
edit: I was searching for this a few months ago, it can be quite a common problem but it's not one that's heard about a lot. I read on a lot of forums where some husbands hated their sex drive because it was making their wife fall out with them but there isn't really a solution other than 'suck it in'. Equally though it could be the other way, it's not just when people are single, I think an overactive sex drive can be as much a problem as underactive sex drive.
example: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8572814.aspx
Ergh. Vibrators are so weird. A semi-solid plastic or silicone cylinder vacillating and undulating inside of you, perhaps in a robust phugoid motion.
Urgh, it reminds me of surgery. I don't know how you ladies handle it.
minus the mess
Well, it gets us off and we don't have to give it a blow job afterwards, so quite easily.
maybe its the intimacy that i'm craving more than the sex....
Wow do I understand that. Well talking as somebody who hasn't had intimate sex in... too long... I find masturbation just doesn't fill the addiction. Its just a cheap hit to keep me going for the real thing.
Though I'm quite sure this is different for most people and especially between girls and guys.
But anyways, you live in london right... (jk)
lmao, i missed this!
does it seem weird to want to spend most if not all of your spare time fucking and doing other sexual acts...?
Errrrrrrrrrmmmmmmmm, how about no?!
Don't try and pick people up on here, it ain't the place.
Yeah, I thought the joke was pretty obvious too!!
The internet has to be better than the workplace, which used to be the primary means of making all forms of social contact.
TT - i think it normal to want sex when you can't have it, it's psycological. You know, like giving chocolate for lent or a diet makes you want it more.