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Just a quick one - why would you need to get through a 'ton' of demanding job interviews? Were you interviewing for (and being offered) many jobs, waiting to find the right one for you? Or were you being unsuccessful?
So you`ve got a good job,can pull a few women and go out a lot.
Lets be honest,your not better than ANYONE.
Neither am I,nor anyone else on this board.
To think you are better than someone else is,in my opinion a very immature and stuck up attitude,used to boost up your own self importance and ego.
Well, tinkler, no one here can tell if you're arrogant in real life or not. But from what people are reading here your opinions of yourself stand out as quite arrogant. And if you're that successful. Good for you. It's ok to be proud of yourself if you've achieved something meaningful. But why'o why do you have to make these threads bragging about yourself? Why not ascnd from these Persona Grata discussion to a more general quesion of what identifes an arrogant person, which is what I thought you wanted to investigate in the first place
Of course you think you're better than most people, because you're the one making up the facts to judge it with. Can you weave a basket? How successful was your latest feature film? How many discoveries have you made in the field of quantum physics? How many pairs of shoes do you own? How many children have you successfully raised? Can you catch your own lunch in the middle of the Amazon? How many people have you converted to your religion? How many posts do you have on thesite.org? Anyone can convince themselves they're better than other people if they come up with their own way of measuring it. The point is that most people don't need to convince themselves they're better than other people. It's this that makes someone arrogant (and I'm clearly saying "someone" because this isn't a thread about you, and Jim will tell me off if I make it one). It's for other people to tell you you're the best. You can't come to that judgement yourself.
This isn't a discussion on arrogance, it's you once again presenting lots of waffle about how good you are.
For somebody so smooth that puts so much value on communication and first impressions you've come across very badly.
You come across as somebody trying depseratley to impress, which makes you look kind of insecure. Nobody else here find the need to bang on about how successful they are, most people find they can develop personal relationships without the big I AM.
I left this thread open to let people have their say and to hear some different views on arrogance, confidence etc, but it seems you're just keen for people to know how successful you are (in your view) and that doesn't really make for interesting discussion. I really can't see that you're looking for support or advice here, so I'm going to close this thread.