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There's a really good joke there, but i'll let you all find it for yourselves
Me too. It just wasn't good, although I think I learnt a lot from that experience.
Now, it's my weekends as we have a LDR. Although is it really giving it up if I want to be doing it? :chin:
I just prefer to chill out and sit at home (boring I may be:thumb: )but Ive never been the type to want to go out and meet loads of people and even at my own family get togethers Ive had enough after a day of being around loads of them (in the nicest possible way:D )let alone going through all that discomfort with someone elses family!!!:nervous:
I guess its my mentality of prefering to be alone and doing what I want when I want with who I want.I have lived alone for most of 2 years now when my grandparents are away for most of the summer.
Its really annoying me now with all her moaning about me not meeting anyone and not being bothered but the more she goes on the more Im not going to meet anyone and the more I want to be on my own....
Am I in the wrong here?
You can never really be in the wrong about what you want to do with your time. But you might be pleasantly surprised if you do spend time with people. Maybe give it some time to get to know these people she wants you to meet. As other people have said, you do need compromises in relationships for example going to see the odd film that you wouldn't usually have chosen. So maybe you should do what she wants some of the time, but she should also respect what you want to do and do what you want to do some of the time. The relationship won't work if you're always in conflict about how to spend time.
We have decided to just be friends now.
Bit sad,this is the longest Ive ever been with a girl but....things end dont they?
At least it ended nicely and we are friends.
Ended up living where she wanted, she had the car she wanted, booked holidays to places she wanted, ate what she wanted...
My life felt like an ornament on her fireplace.
Glad to hear it's sorted. Yes, most relationships will come to an end eventually, plently more fish in the sea!
Yeah, I am still getting my head around this one :grump:
Its not rude and obnoxious..thats just personal preference! To be honest id been craving meat for quite a while (and yes,rubberskin,insert own joke here..:b) and was maybe just looking for an excuse to make that leap..he made the argument that if its all organic and well reared then eating meat can still be an ethical choice and i can totally understand that point of view although i do still get a bit of a guilt pang when i look down at my plate and remind myself im eatiog a dead thing..:( On the plus side though Im feeling healthier and stronger than I have in years so at the moment feel it was the right choice for me..:)