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*hugs*
Same.
Still not frequently enough.
True. I have got magnificently defined fore-arms now though
Now are you sure you want me to remind you again ?:flirt:
When I'm in a relationship, pretty much every day we're with eachother and we can.
I remember when I lost my virginity I didn't want to do it again for a while so maybe she's just got freaked out a bit. It can be a really stressful thing for some people!
long live one night stands :yeees:
You have to be honest, can you really see yourself being happy with 1-3 times a week? I know I didn't, but then there wasn't much love in our relationship, so it wasn't worth the sacrifice, hopefully with you it is.
On the sex drive decreasing as the relationbship goes on, it's not always the case, with me the longer the relationship the higher my sex drive becomes. After a year or two I'd be wanting it 2-3 times a day, at the begining once a week would do. It's been the same in every relationship i've been in (for me that is)
I understand!
I know everyone is different but am REALLY suprised and take it personally when my fiance makes excuses.
You hear so often and even see how men are always up for it and was hoping that my fiance was the same. In the beginning it was, i can't deny that but now its like none existant!
Like you I really enjoy it and love the closeness of it all but my fiance doesn't seem to share this.
It's made me a real paranoid person thinking that it has to be me (how I look or something) or that I'm weird or maybe he's cheating on me. I don't know, I hope it doesn't break us up but like the person above (Red Jelly) said, it is a big problem between a couple in a relationship if both people have different needs.
:shocking:
*faints*
Even when in my last relationship we didnt have sex much, i wanted it all the time but he was always "too tired". A chap too tired for sex? i think it was because of his little foreskin problem.
I tell some of my close friends how long it's been since the last time i had sex and they just stare at me. I feel like an alien!
But i dont have sex with people im not with cause i dont want to be known as a slut or easy! So thats probably why im lacking sex.
True enough. Just for the sake of it sex is a bit shit, I hardly ever get to see my girlfriend so when I do...we go at it gun ho'. Yeeha!