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Sex in University Halls!
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Me and the bf are both at university and we met each other there, think weve been together now for about 4 months!! Anyway....we both live in halls which is all good apart from....usually we both leave our doors open all the time...and so does everyone else in our flats. What I really hate is the fact that everyone blatently knows when we are having sex becasue we (obviously) haev to shut the door!! It makes me like tense up etc etc...one weekend everyone in his flat was away and it was so much better!! I dont know how I can make myself relax!! I hate the thought of people knowing we are doing it!! (not the mosst conifdent person at the best fo times)....
oooo I suppose I cant really do anything about it!!
I also panic that everytone can hear everything....which they probably can...and then its like a walk of shame when I leave!! I hate it!!
oooo I suppose I cant really do anything about it!!
I also panic that everytone can hear everything....which they probably can...and then its like a walk of shame when I leave!! I hate it!!
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Flatmates can be immature when it comes to this sort of things, one guy in my flat in halls had a long term girlfriend and they were shagging constantly but nobody else really joked about it.
We didn't even have locks on our doors, pulled a girl in Freshers week, giving her some sweet Bri-namite lovin' in my bedroom - then the door burst open and we got the bucket of water treatment from my flatmates
golden..
I'm sure she loved you for it
the only advice i can offer is, so what if people can hear you? i mean, as long as your not surrounded by some genuinely unpleasant people, no one is going to say anything bad about you just for having sex. theyre probably just jealous theyre not gettin any themselves.
:yes:
But yea it happens nobody really cares . I think it's much more gossip-worthy when its two of your flatmates who got drunk and 'accidentally' slept together the awkwardness the day after is priceless, lmao.
Conditioner?
that should work