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As for sex clubs, never been to one and not really interested at this point in my life so can't offer much advice. Except the sensible use protection because you don't know who the person you're having sex with has had sex with. Could be the pope.
I know women who have worked both in stripping and the sex industry and it is a matter of choice and also an industry... So really, you have no place patronising the women in it if you've already paid to go in.
To keep to this tangent for a moment before pulling the thread back on its rails, I don't know if I could ever go to a strip club as I'm unsure as to where it sits with my feminist ethics. Whilst I believe that women should have the freedom to choose what career they want and most definitely have the mental capacity to make that decision, I dunno how I'd fee paying to look at boobs, or if I'd feel like I'm objectifying women.
We're not entirely monogamous, so we wanted to try out a place you could go to to meet like-minded, good looking people, and we had a great time. We didn't actually play with anyone else, we wanted to just check it out really, but it was a really pleasant experience, and all the people there were friendly and respectful.
Like I said, PM me if you want more details of where we went to I don't want to post on here as I don't think it's appropriate, but as a tip, avoid places that allow single men to go. The party we went with will only allow single women, or a male/female couple.
But surely a restricted number of single guys must be allowed? what about those couples who go who dont want to indulge with a single woman....or an attached man? Just pondering on the matter.
The place I've been to will allow bi men to come along, but they will not be allowed to engage in anything with another man while they're there, if that's what you mean? Out of the couples I know, they want to play with other women, or couples, not individual men.
Well to be fair ive never asked her.
Well that's all good and fine, and I'm sure plenty of us will be happy for her to stand up for sisterhood while she continues to dangle her knockers in our faces
Noone was pushy, I was approached a few times by either the man or woman of a couple and asked if i would like to join them but when I declined they were fine about it.
It was alot more relaxed than a normal club to be fair, the only one pushing was my ex who wanted to see me with another woman :rolleyes:
I haven't been to one since though, it's not really my thing but if you're curious then go and see what you think but take someone with you.
yeh I totally agree. The poor bloke was just tryin to make a comment!!! WTF??? You people are sooooo touchy.oooooooooo:rolleyes:
Don't get me wrong, I feel that a lot of women mistake sexual freedom for equality (another debate... But equality is much more than that), but if she wants to do it and if it makes her feel good then why not?
She shouldn't be laughed at.