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Would you go to one?
Have you been to one?
I've found one in London and am curious about it. I'm not a great believer in monogomy and would like to try it out and see what it's like.
I've heard there's no pressure to play with people and that they're tolernt of people's kinks and boundaries.
Anyway... I was interested in the idea of non-monogamy after watching a program on swingers. Monogomy doesn't seem natural for me as an individual (so far, maybe one day I'll meet somebody) and I'm interested on what happens in these clubs.
Have you been to one?
I've found one in London and am curious about it. I'm not a great believer in monogomy and would like to try it out and see what it's like.
I've heard there's no pressure to play with people and that they're tolernt of people's kinks and boundaries.
Anyway... I was interested in the idea of non-monogamy after watching a program on swingers. Monogomy doesn't seem natural for me as an individual (so far, maybe one day I'll meet somebody) and I'm interested on what happens in these clubs.
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But yeah, if you're interested, check it out with a friend on a "I'm not going to have sex tonight" basis. But I reckon you could expect even more unwanted attention than normal.
I know I'd be flirted with, but I've heard these clubs are far more respectful and people aren't pushy like in usual night clubs. I know that the alternative sex world is very respectible as I've met people in it. Boundaries are of upmost importance.
I never go out and pull, I hate ending up at people's houses or doing it in a street. I hate it in normal bars when guys come on to me and don't go the fuck away. I mean what the hell?
Ohh Ok...
What're they like? Are the people who go nice?
I can imagine a lot of professional people going.
thats way too stereotypical. it might have been your experience so far. but it solely depends on the individuals even with rules laid down.
Yeah of course... You get dickheads everywhere. But I mean there are levels of ettiquet in said places...
It's just I've heard that they're actually safer than normal bars.
Will have to go see for myself maybe. :chin:
have you been?
It was a leather/rubber/skinhead bar, though not mandatory, so was a good place to go to wear your fetish gear.
A mixture of people. Guys 'into' the leather/rubber/skin/S&M etc scene. Some who just liked to watch, some who just came for a quick shag, some who just liked to wear rubber/leather etc and have somewhere to go to have a drink and a chat in their gear.
I've been to a few, but obviously can't speak about staight/bi/lesbian ones as i'm not any of those
They're ok now and again. When i worked in one and used to pop in on me night off it all gets a bit 'samey'. Much prefer a cup of tea and a game of WoW now
I would imagine so, unless it say something like a singles night.
No, that's up to you. It all has and should be by mutual consent. If you just want to have a look round and see what it's all about then that's fine.
Well you could if you're angling to get rid of your Fiesta and pick up a Merc or something
I dont think they did
LOL
Let's have a thesite sex club meet.
The topic of this thread is fine but bearing in mind issues around the safety of young people the idea of a thesite.org sex meet is wholly inappropriate.
If you want this thread to stay open I'm afraid you can't make reference to it again. Sorry
id be so fucking pissed off with you if that was me.
Ive never done anything like that, but what the fuck should my father have to do with my decsion making?
Sort your own life out before judging everyone else.
You DO use people. Why the hell do you go to a strip club and then sit there moralising to the people who you are getting off on, and then talk about fuck buddies and making her sleep on the floor. Its pretty obvious you think women are dogs and you are so much more fucking righteous because you occasionally feel bad about stuff.
How do you know those women in those clubs werent encouraged into it BY their daddies who you think would be so disappointed in them? Why should they even give a fuck.
Youve totally given me the creeps. Youre just a patronising sexist homophobic wanker these days.
Exactly. A lot of dancers actually ENJOY there job. Its got fuck all to do with their Dad etc.
:yes:
That is not what they wan to hear.
Infact my old man and I are quite proud of her for doing it. She's suffered anxiety attacks for years and the sole reason for her taking the job was to try and overcome her problems and she's done it. It's not her only job and when some twat comes in and starts telling her she's too good to work there it's patronising. She does it because she wants too and she tells me many of the other girls feel exactly the same.
Make not lads. If you go to a strip club don't think telliing the girls they're too good to work there will somehow make you look good, they'll think you're a cock.
Oh don't be so patronising towards them. Let them do what they wanna do, it's up to them if they get a reputation for the 'village bike' and why would you care anyway? It's their decision, their choice... Not yours.
And it's very hypocritical to go to strip clubs then dictate how strippers behave. First you go to objectify them, then you tell them what to do. :rolleyes: You are playing a part of the supposedly amoral industry you don't want to see your sisters in.
And this is about sex clubs, not strip clubs.
w/e
Cos it's annoying and since it is J he prob does mean it since he's not exactly completely on this planet.
(I'm withdrawing the next comment that I made. On reflection, it was not entirely appropriate of me to make it.)
Oh for fucks sake get off your fucking high horse stargalaxy. J's views are quite tame compared to some of the other bullshit that gets peddled by people on this forum so leave it out, especially when the poster has publicly admitted he does have some mental problems.