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Socialists saying I'm greedy/selfish cos of my job
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Hi everyone. Sorry I just really need to vent/let off steam, and would also appreciate your opinions.
I'm an investment banker. One of those "high flyers" in the city who makes loads of money, big bonuses etc. Not particularly because I'm hugely money-grabbing and materialistic, but because I'm naturally good at maths, economics, finance so the job I have seems to be an ideal fit for what I do.
Anyway, I am fed up of non-stop getting flak, stick, abuse just based on my job. If I meet people at pubs, bars, clubs etc and they ask what my job is, it will most of the time be treated with a typical abusive comment like "Oh so you're obsessed with making as much money as possible then?", "It's thanks to people like you that Africans are starving, why don't you give all that money to charity, don't you have a social conscience?", "Why would anyone want to do something like that when you can be positively contributing to social justice?" etc etc. Yes I could just lie about my job but I don't feel comfortable doing that.
Also I get featured now and then in financial newspapers, Bloomberg TV and stuff, and straight after I get quite a bit of hate-mail from socialists saying how greedy people like me are and how we should be giving all our money to Africa etc.
What pisses me off in particular is how hypocritical everyone is. I give way more to charity than some socialist, who themselves may spend more needlessly on designer clothes / drugs / their PC when others have nothing.
Why should I constantly be made to feel guilt-tripped just because I got a well-paying job?
To be honest even though I'm not hugely driven by money yes I do love having lots of it to enjoy with things like nice holidays and cars. I'm made to feel guilty about this when there are indeed people starving and stuff.. but how come nobody has a go at popstars, celebrities, footballers who make way more? And how come it's fine for someone earning like £20k to enjoy the occasional luxury but when I do it's seen as greedy?
Any thoughts? Like I said I'm not comfortable lying about my job to shake off flak. I just want a simple happy comfortable life without having to deal with abuse and crap non-stop, is that too much to ask?
Thanks
I'm an investment banker. One of those "high flyers" in the city who makes loads of money, big bonuses etc. Not particularly because I'm hugely money-grabbing and materialistic, but because I'm naturally good at maths, economics, finance so the job I have seems to be an ideal fit for what I do.
Anyway, I am fed up of non-stop getting flak, stick, abuse just based on my job. If I meet people at pubs, bars, clubs etc and they ask what my job is, it will most of the time be treated with a typical abusive comment like "Oh so you're obsessed with making as much money as possible then?", "It's thanks to people like you that Africans are starving, why don't you give all that money to charity, don't you have a social conscience?", "Why would anyone want to do something like that when you can be positively contributing to social justice?" etc etc. Yes I could just lie about my job but I don't feel comfortable doing that.
Also I get featured now and then in financial newspapers, Bloomberg TV and stuff, and straight after I get quite a bit of hate-mail from socialists saying how greedy people like me are and how we should be giving all our money to Africa etc.
What pisses me off in particular is how hypocritical everyone is. I give way more to charity than some socialist, who themselves may spend more needlessly on designer clothes / drugs / their PC when others have nothing.
Why should I constantly be made to feel guilt-tripped just because I got a well-paying job?
To be honest even though I'm not hugely driven by money yes I do love having lots of it to enjoy with things like nice holidays and cars. I'm made to feel guilty about this when there are indeed people starving and stuff.. but how come nobody has a go at popstars, celebrities, footballers who make way more? And how come it's fine for someone earning like £20k to enjoy the occasional luxury but when I do it's seen as greedy?
Any thoughts? Like I said I'm not comfortable lying about my job to shake off flak. I just want a simple happy comfortable life without having to deal with abuse and crap non-stop, is that too much to ask?
Thanks
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That thought crossed my mind as well
Off topic you reminded me that Ricardo seemed to have been quiet for sometime and I wondered what had happened - why did he get banned? What did I miss?
it's probably him again, he likes the reaction we all give on here!
Just what I was thinking.
It's quite sad really.
Do you reckon he's a bit lonely or something?
I think he's just a bit thick. Seriously, intelligent maybe - but no common sense.
He compared himself to fucking Patrick Bateman. If you see a bloke running around Canary Wharf in Hitecs and a chainsaw - lucky you! You've got interest from Jomery/Ricardo/Weirdo..
I'd just like to add that giving money to charity or complaining about rich people has fuck all to do with socialism.
I went to the pub with him last night as it goes.
Word :thumb:
Reason people judge you would be because they may be jealous or feel it's unfair you get paid a lot when the work you do may not be 'harder' or more valuable but just makes more money for big companies. I know this is a feeling with a lot of med students I know.
You, and all your banking chums, are self-centred greedy fucks. I honestly don't know how you manage to sleep at night, I'd be fucking ashamed to work in that industry knowing what it does to people.
I don't think you should have to give your salary to charity but I think you should consider where your salary comes from. It comes directly from grinding the faces of the poor and disadvantaged into the fucking dirt.
So fuck off with your self-centred whingeing. It would be tragic if you and your mate got sent down for ten years for GBH with intent, wouldn't it?
Boo hoo. :crying:
People are judgmental. Deal with it.
Why is it that you think that celebs and pro footballers don't get flack? I reckon they get quite a bit of flack. I reckon, actually, that they'd generally get more flack than you would, because theirs is a more public lifestyle. If you don't want to, you don't have to disclose how much you earn at all, and, yet, in another thread on this site, you willingly did just that. You could avoid all your flack by just not saying how much you earn. A pro-footballer or an A-list celeb doesn't have that option, because everyone already knows they earn a packet.
That said, you don't have to lie about anything either. But, frankly, there are people who are rich and likeable, and there are people who are rich and unlikeable. You might just fall into the second group.
Also whilst I am at it, maybe it's just your attitude that stinks. I mean, what the fuck is your thread title about "socialists saying you are greedy"? What's that about? Why do you have a dig at people even in your thread title which is your opening to a thread that is intended to gain sympathy for your position. Jesus Christ man, you may be rich but I think you missed out on the classes where they teach you about diplomacy and getting people on side.
Haway, this guy's been here two minutes and he's rubbed his money in our face and then whinged on about how everyone hates him for rubbing his money in their face.
Nicest thing that could happen to fucks like him is a stock market crash.
This was his first post, and then he answered another thread with some proof of figures to show what was being asked was possible. Yes his title to this thread could have been more diplomatic, but thats no reason to accuse him of being someone else and having a complete go at him.
That much is true.
However, the answer to the guy's "problem" is surely within his own grasp. If he doesn't want "socialists" having a go at him, then all he needs to do is quit bragging.