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You didn't mention that before, you just said it was based on looks and now you're saying that its because of their personalities. Make up your mind
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I'll admit I've thought 'gee, x deserves better' when I first see friends with new bfs/gfs. However in the end I usually don't care as long as they're both happy and doing things they enjoy. Especially after I get to know them better.
I don't need to live with them so it doesn't affect me and because my friends won't live with my non-existant-bf I'm not that fussed if he won't meet their standards as long as he's meeting mine.
Life's short, go for what you want and then see how goes. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Great news! Congratulations, go there and enjoy yourself.
It's often better to be in the social group just below this - the ones who don't play rugby or have 'jock' status but are actually normal human beings - then the slightly less twattish rugby boys and netball girls are happy to hang out with you, likewise the more confident people from the social status below... and you actually end up being more popular than the rugby boys, somehow (because you're not acting like an arrogant dick perhaps).
thats excellent! and its great that it wasn't what you first thought it was aswell! good luck!
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:hyper: Nice one, pleased it all went well.
You seeing her again ?
You Bet! Her exact words were "Your stuck with me now mate"!
I'm such a panic though. I'm actually more petrified now than before the date though. Before we went out, I had nothing to lose, but seeing as it went so well, I really don't want to fuck it up now like my previous track record. I'm just trying so hard not to fall too deep or get ahead of myself because from experience I know you ladies are just so unpredictable! I mean, there are no signs that I should be worrying, but I'm just a worryer by nature! :nervous: