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Sex With Friend?
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Has anybody ever had a close friend of the opposite sex, whom they were close friends with and also had sex with. Being more then fuck buddies, but not in a relationship with one another. You could both still date, kiss and possibly have sex with other people???
Because a sort of situation to this looks like it his happening, and i don't want to lose my friend for the sake of casual sex, as it might change how close we are... But then again, it might end up in a relationship so i just dont know.
Because a sort of situation to this looks like it his happening, and i don't want to lose my friend for the sake of casual sex, as it might change how close we are... But then again, it might end up in a relationship so i just dont know.
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But it fucked up the friendship for a while afterwards. Just be careful, it's a long road to get back the friendship you once had if it does go wrong.
It caused problems for me and my friend until we decided to be a proper couple, and then it was wonderful.
a) wanting it to be more, which isn't always mutual, or
b) having a problem and falling out.
Of course if you both want more and have a relationship then fine, but that's not what you set out to achieve so how likely is it.
In my experience I've done it once, but then I got really upset when he ended it to see someone else even though I knew that was fair enough because I didn't want anything more at the time - but it just kind of messed up the atmosphere. We're mates again now, though. But ask yourself whether a hitch in friendship (which might be hard to recover from) is something worth risking.
-Jess-
Sex with close friends, it will always always turn out into something more if you let it. It might seem the right idea at the time, but for the sake of a future friendship, if it means that much to you, I wouldn't go there. You'll inevitability fall out and get sick of each other in the end, and in relationship terms split up.
Staying friends, can be done after a break up, but it's hard, very hard, for whatever obvious reason you can think of. I think its best to see someone, who you know enough about to like, but then not being that close to get on each other nerves. you dig?
fucking close friends is usually how people hook up though innit? tut... :chin: What I mean is, I've been there and fucked up a few friendships by doing the same thing...
I married my best friend...
Having said that all my friends are right incestuous and have all done stuff with each other at some point or another so we are probably all wierd.
congratulations :thumb:
Of all the people I know who started dating their good friends, its always worked out.
Same here. But of all the people who have attempted to start dating a good friend by revealing their feelings, plenty haven't worked out too.
I reckon its a good idea if you like sex often with some one you're comfortable with as long as you're the sort of person who can detatch themselves from becoming 'emotionally involved'.
If you both feel the same towards eachother should be all good.
The thing is, we have been friends for absolutely ages, since we were both teens. She knows already i love her to bits, as we have been best friends for ages. She told me she fancied me a lot since we have been friends, but that doesnt mean she has any feelings for me that way now. But then again, i know she is attracted to me and wouldnt have any issues getting physical, i suppose all i can do is see how things happen from here on really.
Aaah but was she/he your best friend to start with or did she/he grow to be ?
Just don't tell GWST
Wish my best friends fancied me...
It's obviously got stronger, but we were very close friends right from the word go.
I think people should be more optimistic about romance, because I think most people are good when it comes down to it.
... apart from estate agents