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pain when getting turned on
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does anyone know what could be causing this;its been worrying me for a while now. whenever i get turned on, i start to get a pain 'down there'...and its wierd bcos it feels like the pain is coming from actually inside my bits, LOL
any ideaS?
any ideaS?
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you could visit your local GUM clinic to check
if its appeared recently it could be an std, you could have sprained it or bruised it?!
if your a girl, more than likely 'tis bruised ... from too much action may be
im so worried, what STI could it be?
katralla - its not so much a pain, but an ache, inside me
its worth checking because if you leave it too long you may not be able to fix the damage done
also, its free to go so you don't loose anything from going and its better to be safe than sorry instead of ending up being e.g not being able to have kids later in life because you didn't check
I'm sure you mean well but i get pain like that and i don't have an STD. No need to scare the poor girl.
scary - i havent thought about if its at particular times more than others, but its something il think about.
thing is, sod what they think or what you think they think - your health is more important
which STI presents as pain on arousal then?
I really don't think you can diagnose an STI from that level of information. Or maybe you are suitably qualified and have magical powers?
Telling people you think they have an STI is cruel.
OP, if it's been going on a while then you should get checked out, the GUM clinic are the experts here (they don't just do STIs but any problems with that region), or you could try your regular doctors.
You said they were fairly unpleasant when you went with your mate, I've found that one of the ones round me varies hugely so they may well be nice this time.
Sorry, but in what way is that cruel!!!!!?
Honestly...
She's asked for advice, playdead gave it.
Basically, she says she gets pain when turned on, id say its something she should go to the doctors and sort out really, instead of guessing.
Sugar Mouse. Its up to you, either you go to the GUM clinic or your doctors, and sort it. Or you worry about how you think the person 'looks down' on you. At the end of the day its your body. If you're worried sort it. If you're more worried about how a doctor may appear to 'look down' on you, then thats a bit silly, do you not think?
I have been having some health problems in that area so I thought it was connected to that but now that I read here it happens to other people, I'm not sure.
I know I dont have an STI so its not that for me, but you could get checked for your own reassurance (as others have alrdy said).
Trelexnor:
sounds a reasonable explanation to me but then how come you can get it some times and not others?
I personally think ( and would find) being told that you have an STI without any real evidence is cruel. It's not exactly a nice thing to hear!
Lets face it, shes in pain, but wont go to the doctor, cos, according to her mate, the doctors 'look down on people'
im not saying she has one for sure but i think its best to check incase even if your 99% sure you don't have one you should still check because it could ruin your life later. thats my opinion anyway
If I read correctly (bit of a novelty round here I know) I think she found from personnal experience that staff at the GUM clinic looked down on people when she was there with a mate.
erm..i never said i wouldnt og to the doctors, and its not according ot my mate; i went with her and saw how the receptionists looked at her.
dont worry guys, i am going to go anyway, just didnt know if his problem could be connected.
intrepide - that explanation could explain alot, because it happens more when im suddenly v v turned on+not so much wen it happens gradually.