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Maybe you can be friends in the future but a clean break is more than likely the best thing for it. and yes, it is hard but the pain does go away after a while
The only thing I'm worried about now is him going out with Midge. That would destroy me.
Bastard.
really sorry to hear it
This could be interesting.
I'm really sorry to hear about this. I'm not sure if you've met up with him yet, but I hope you are ok. Be sure to give yourself lots of time, be kind to yourself and let others take care of you for a while. Here's an article that you may find comfort in if or when you want to. *hugs*
I spoke to him earlier, he came to pick me up from work, and like...at first I found it quite difficult to say anything because I thought I was gonna sound like a twat (plus I'm tired, and ill, and in a generally bad mood because I was really stressed out about it at work and they wouldn't let me leave on time and I needed a cigarette). But like, I just managed to talk to him, and he said that he's felt like his feelings have been changing for quite a bit, but he didn't want to ruin my holiday (even though it was, but he wasn't to know that really), and that he thought we wanted different things from the relationship. Despite my best efforts to try and make him think that those things weren't important (the thing he said about the different things doesn't apply anymore, cause it was to do with trust and stuff), I don't think I'm gonna change his mind (not by doing that anyway ;p). I've kinda accepted nothing's gonna happen (which is annoying 'cause I'm really sexually frustrated atm ;(), and I have resigned myself to being just good mates with him. Normally I'd not want to stay friends with him straight away, but he's been really good to me, and he does have that uncanny ability to calm me down and make me smile when I'm upset.
And I got lots of hugs, which is never a bad thing .
Hugs to you sweet x
"Btw, not meaning to sound cruel, cause I just want to make you aware of the situation, but if you even think of trying anything with JD now that he's single, I'll cut your head off with a spoon ."
Tbh, he'd probably laugh. I know he wouldn't be having any of it (she MINGS), but it bugged me when we were together, and it'll bug me even more now. He thinks (afaik this is the impression I got earlier) that she is a bit of an attention seeker. He went to her birthday thing at Rollerworld/Quasar after he was done breaking up with me, and apparently she had a "panic attack" in the middle of Quasar. GUESS WHO ENDED UP LOOKING AFTER HER :yeees:. He said it looked a bit forced. Lolz.
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Thats quite a good threat . Sorry to hear about you two breaking up, but at least your trying to stay friends which is better then losing him completely. I know you can bounce back from this.
Did she text back?
Lol :angel:.
I also just had to remind the girl that he was rumoured to be cheating with that as my friend, it is not appropriate to go out buying underwear with which to, er, "tease JD with" 2 days after he split up with me. I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt with this one and trust him that he has no idea why she did that, and come to the conclusion that she's a bitch .
I think we have all come to that conclusion that she is a bitch
wordddddddd :thumb:
if they cheat on you, they not worth your time or energy, enjoy the single life
if he didnt cheat, well its better than prolonging off feelings by one pf the partners, less bad in the long run