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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I think I want to die.

Franki doesn't have a boyfriend anymore.

I don't understand. Not even a little bit.

Oh. Oh fuck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What happened?

    :(
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    :(

    What's happened, Franki?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *hug* if it's sore to talk about you can just rant franki dear.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't know what happened. I thought everything was ok. But he came to my house, and he was all dragging it out, about why he'd wanted to talk to me...and then he was like "I'm dragging this out and it's not fair". And then he goes...fucking..."Franki, do you think we should go our separate ways?". What the fuck am I supposed to say to that?! I knew it I fucking KNEW IT. After that fucking message the other day saying he was cheating on me...he's gonna fucking go to her and be all fucking loved up.

    I can't do this.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ahh..sucks! still, you're fit and single with a birthday coming up. im sure you'll find someone new!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote:
    I can't do this.

    You can and you will.

    You know you can. And you know you will.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't want someone new. I wsnt my fucking JD back,
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote:
    What the fuck am I supposed to say to that?! I knew it I fucking KNEW IT. After that fucking message the other day saying he was cheating on me...he's gonna fucking go to her and be all fucking loved up.

    I can't do this.

    I keep trying to write something, but it comes out like shit. Fuck him, Franki. I'm sorry.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would just like to point out after noticing the ambiguity of that statement, that I don't think he actually cheated on me. But she fancies him, and he told me he had a crush on her. So it's probably gonna happen anyway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *hugs* :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *more hugs*

    :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "I felt like I was lying to you because you love me way more than I love you".

    Eugh./
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm so sorry Franki
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sophia wrote:
    Shit, that's never nice to hear :( At least he's being honest I suppose, but fuck, what a kick in the guts that is.

    Really sorry Franki, hope you're ok.
    But, I knew that. I've always ALWAYS known that. It's a stupid reason, and it shouldn't make any fucking difference.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think so. He would have told me. Not sure about him wanting there to be though. I'm trying not to think about it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That 'just dumped' feeling is fucking horrible. It is.

    But it goes away, so try not to do owt silly, k?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kaffrin wrote:
    try not to do owt silly, k?
    Am trying very hard :yes:.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im sorry to hear what happened to you and really hope you will feel better soon.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote:
    Am trying very hard :yes:.

    That's my girl :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :( I'm so sorry Franki.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh im so sorry to hear this! Now how it feels my boyfriend told me that he didnt love me as much as he did and that he wasnt happy, knocks the fuck right out of you, but in time it gets better you will see :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It now appears he never loved me in the first place. And is being cowardly and not replying to my messages.

    Meh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fuck him Franki. Leave him to it, figure out what you'd really like to say and talk to him in a couple of days. :)

    Get back in the 'What' thread, we're all drinking ;).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote:
    It now appears he never loved me in the first place. And is being cowardly and not replying to my messages.

    Meh.
    Thats just a lad thing to do because he feels awkward, it doesnt mean he's never loved you, he has done and probably still does to an extent but situations and feeling can change.
    Someone very wisely said on here that you shouldnt judge a relationship on the bad last few days but on how great things were the whole time you were together!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    icey wrote:
    Thats just a lad thing to do because he feels awkward, it doesnt mean he's never loved you, he has done and probably still does to an extent but situations and feeling can change.
    Someone very wisely said on here that you shouldnt judge a relationship on the bad last few days but on how great things were the whole time you were together!
    Nah, it was "so you stopped loving me then?", "I like you but love is too strong a word" that did it tbh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maybe he was just trying to make thing easier? i'm not trying to defend him like but just think how much easier that is to accept and move on than if he had said he still loved you but didnt want to be with you anymore
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeh, but I don't think he's lying. He's not the type, really.

    I should really stop doing this.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its not your fault, these things just happen sometimes :( *hugs*
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