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I decided to stick at it.
My horrid feeling it wasn't a one off turned out to be true.
We broke up last week.
She's with him now.
Feel a bit stupid.
Moral of the story? Don't always believe it when they say 'I know I lied but now I'm telling the truth' because if they lied once they're probably going to just keep lying to cover up the extent of their lies. Liars dont have the same conciencious objection to lying that honest people do.
But its an entire different ball game when she goes out drunk, gets hold of the nearest lad, takes him back to her place and gets laid, in essence.
That is how much respect she has for you!!
I wouldn't waste my time even listening to her crying, at least you have seen her in her true selfish colours.
Amen
Good luck with whatever you decide to do, and let us know how it goes
Maybe this is a bit ott but the message is pretty clear, dont forgive the cheating slag!
everyone feels like that, explains why I chose to take him back. It hardly ever works tbh though and I think looking back in the long run it is better to end it. I don't think you could ever compare someone kissing someone to actually sleeping with someone, as much as these are both cheating in my eyes it is also a very very different thing
I am going to try to avoid her for a while, till i am over her though, or at least over her enough to be ok to talk to her as friends. If i never get there i will have to totally avoid her.
Best advice is, it most likely wont work out if you take them back anyway.
Totally agree. There is no way I would ever EVER take a cheat back after what I have been through. Cheating hurts A LOT and cheaters deserve everything they get imo
It's not about being caught though, it's the satifaction you get knowing you are giving yourself totally to a partner and letting them know they can trust you fully. She won't be happy in the end mate so don't worry
HA! I love it ... don't do anything by halves, eh?
I've unwisely forgiven a serial cheater of an ex before, and he went on to cheat once again after I reached into the very depths of my ability for forgiveness to take him back. I wouldn't automatically rule out doing the same again, though, if it happens again I would try to judge a different relationship - and person - on their own merits and the circumstances. It's a very difficult situation, I really feel for you