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no need to get all sarcastic
Not all girls are like this...
Yes I have. Why do you ask?
if youve noticed my threads attracted some 'brain surgeons' who write brilliant replies...
I mean AFTER I wrote the long post
If she is seeing someone else, then she won't be interested in you, regardless of what genitalia she is licking this week. It isn't because she's bi that she won't want you. It isn't because you have a physical disability that she won't want you. It's because she's got someone else. Deal with it.
Get a grip and move on. And whatever you do, please please please don't tell her how you feel. It's something that's really quite scary to hear if you're not an item.
Very true
Talking from experince, it can get complicated at times if you see said person alot as well.
Its too late...
its my fault...
Im just a fucking idiot..
im no better than that darkdavid guy...
thanks for anyone who replied
goodbye
John
You're only a fucking idiot if you spend your time moping about whining about how unfair it is, and how she's a total bitch for not fancying you.
Either you move on, or you kill yourself with it.
:yes: And the latter sucks, btw. (And right now, I'm trying to do the former)
its just I feel like a chump for fancying her...
oh well, live and learn eh?
I better close this thread before I reopen old wounds
There's nothing wrong with being rejected. Personally I'd rather ask the girl and get rejected than to have never asked at all. At least you took the chance. Just don't get too attached before you're actually a couple is all.
if not then at the very least I hope she wont hate me...
A few months ago I told a best friend I had feelings for him and while he didn't return them and I felt like crap for a while we learnt to move on and now our friendship is stronger than ever.
Try and tread carefully and don't step over the bounds of friendship, ok? Just relax and try to be natural around her then she'll see the real you and you might become good friends. Most girls prefer a guy who's a friend without a hidden agenda. Personally it makes me very uncomfortable if I suss out a guy who wants to be more than friends when we barely know eachother, I tend to run a mile and then he neither has a friend nor a potential partner.
I think you've learnt a lot since you first posted this so I don't think you'll make the same mistake again
Take care
xx