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shes bi!
BillieTheBot
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I like a girl but shes Bi what do I do
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on a serious note what do you mean what shall you do?
:yes: Surely it wouldn't be that muh different to asking out a straight peron?
thing is though shes emo so its possible shes faking
i guess i just wanna get to know her
It'd be no different if she was already going out with a guy or fancied another guy! You've got just as much of a chance!
This is very true.
So let me guess, you like her so much, that you don't even believe what she says about her sexuality.
Even if she 'thinks' she's bi-sexual, that's still a part of her sexuality.
It sounds like you would benefit from reading our article on Bisexual myths
Hope it helps.
I get the idea that her being bi makes no difference at all so I just gotta act normal.
Can you guys help me with somthing though?
I found out she was bi though a mate and hes saying stuff like "I wouldnt bother with her" and "I'd Leave it if I was you"
well silly old me! I thought if you really care about someone you dont care about something trivial about that
so should I just say "well fudge it, Im not you" and keep going or just give up cause I dont wanna quit
They either 1. dont like you and dont want you to get with their mate, or 2. Do like you but know their mate just fucks people about and they dont want you to get hurt.
But theres no harm in trying. If you don't you'll never know. Go for it!
the mate who trying to get me stop is a bit strange cause one minute he's helping me then the next day hes telling me to quit but your right in saying some of mates are trying to get in my way to stop me getting to know her (in fact one pain in the ass is still tying) so yeah fuck it im not gonna quit until SHE tells me. thats pathetic though just cause her mates arn't getting any there getting involved.
a few of questions though
1. if she likes girls more, does that make her a les?
2. If, No do I step up my game and how do I do it?
3. If a mate of hers tries to get involved should I just say fuck you?
thanks guys youre the best!
this would be like the 20th time ive read it...
No, she still likes guys - hence she's still Bi!
Like you said - get to know her. If things go well - flirt, ask her out.. whatever..
No, don't say fuck you! Getting agressive with her friends is hardly gonna make her like you is it?
Ignore it or ask him/her nicely to back off or ask them nicely why they are getting involved. Although her friends may be getting involved (If it's not for the simple reason that they don't like you..) because they don't think it's a sensible idea for you or because the girl doesn't want to get involved with you.
But before you start worrying about that - get over the fact she's bi and get to know her!
I'm more into, and have been with more women than men, but I still class myself as bi for the simple reason I occasionally fancy men.
Sexuality's a weird thing; I suggest you stop trying to pigeonhole this girl and focus on her, instead of labels.
Whether she's bi or straight doesn't make an ounce of difference - if you like her, get to know her and ask her out. Forget about her personality. Oh, and stop listening to what other people think:)
go fudge yourself!
Other thing is though a mate of hers did get involved and I fear shes already fucked things up so I dont know what to do.
any Ideas?