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shes bi!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No way. :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes way :rolleyes:
    no need to get all sarcastic
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    johnnyboy503 wrote:
    I also thought she wouldnt wanna know cause of my condition (cebral palsy, limp in my leg)

    Not all girls are like this...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    havnt met one who isnt...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Despite being accused of something like this, (there was a rumour going around that I wouldn't go out with someone because he is disabled) I'm not like that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I take it then you read the whole post I did?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its good to know your not like that
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    johnnyboy503 wrote:
    I take it then you read the whole post I did?

    Yes I have. Why do you ask?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just wondering...
    if youve noticed my threads attracted some 'brain surgeons' who write brilliant replies...
    I mean AFTER I wrote the long post
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why is the fact that she is bi an issue?

    If she is seeing someone else, then she won't be interested in you, regardless of what genitalia she is licking this week. It isn't because she's bi that she won't want you. It isn't because you have a physical disability that she won't want you. It's because she's got someone else. Deal with it.

    Get a grip and move on. And whatever you do, please please please don't tell her how you feel. It's something that's really quite scary to hear if you're not an item.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kermit wrote:
    If she is seeing someone else, then she won't be interested in you, regardless of what genitalia she is licking this week. It isn't because she's bi that she won't want you. It isn't because you have a physical disability that she won't want you. It's because she's got someone else. Deal with it.

    Very true
    Get a grip and move on. And whatever you do, please please please don't tell her how you feel. It's something that's really quite scary to hear if you're not an item.

    Talking from experince, it can get complicated at times if you see said person alot as well.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont know what to say....
    Its too late...
    its my fault...
    Im just a fucking idiot..
    im no better than that darkdavid guy...

    thanks for anyone who replied
    goodbye
    John
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're not a fucking idiot for liking someone, and you're not a fucking idiot because they are interested in someone else.

    You're only a fucking idiot if you spend your time moping about whining about how unfair it is, and how she's a total bitch for not fancying you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Truth is i actually regret it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Everyone's been there once, fancying someone they can't have.

    Either you move on, or you kill yourself with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kermit wrote:
    Everyone's been there once, fancying someone they can't have.

    Either you move on, or you kill yourself with it.

    :yes: And the latter sucks, btw. (And right now, I'm trying to do the former)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ill go flip a coin
    its just I feel like a chump for fancying her...
    oh well, live and learn eh?
    I better close this thread before I reopen old wounds
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks To All Who Replied!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you just need to chill out tbh.

    There's nothing wrong with being rejected. Personally I'd rather ask the girl and get rejected than to have never asked at all. At least you took the chance. Just don't get too attached before you're actually a couple is all.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive learned one thing out of all this: if you want to get to know a girl, dont get your mates involved.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Of course, because what do your friends have to do with you and somebody else? Nothing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know its a long shot but I hope I can still get to know her...
    if not then at the very least I hope she wont hate me...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I very much doubt she'll hate you, she'll probably just be a bit embarrassed. At least you've realised your mistake now, everyone has to learn the hard way. We can't help who we like, but most of us get over it and move on and eventually find someone who thinks we're amazing the way we are, and hopefully we think the same of them.
    A few months ago I told a best friend I had feelings for him and while he didn't return them and I felt like crap for a while we learnt to move on and now our friendship is stronger than ever.
    Try and tread carefully and don't step over the bounds of friendship, ok? Just relax and try to be natural around her then she'll see the real you and you might become good friends. Most girls prefer a guy who's a friend without a hidden agenda. Personally it makes me very uncomfortable if I suss out a guy who wants to be more than friends when we barely know eachother, I tend to run a mile and then he neither has a friend nor a potential partner.
    I think you've learnt a lot since you first posted this so I don't think you'll make the same mistake again ;)
    Take care
    xx
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