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I always get rejected by the girls I like...
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I was browsing through myspace and this girl caught my eye. She was 18.
I message'd her and she message'd. She has told me I have looked familier and all that and I have told her the same. However, we didnt go to the same school....so I don't know where I have seen her from. I told her that someday that maybe me and her should hang out sometime. We been talking for days and she seemed interesting. She said I was really cute and she was single.
However, after I told her I was 20 she was like...
"oh ok. you are 20?
well, ttyl. gonna go have a smoke"
and thats the last time I have heard from her, after that she wouldh't return my messages. I don't know what I did wrong? 2 years part is not much and she is 18. Its legal.
What did I do that made her lose interest?
I message'd her and she message'd. She has told me I have looked familier and all that and I have told her the same. However, we didnt go to the same school....so I don't know where I have seen her from. I told her that someday that maybe me and her should hang out sometime. We been talking for days and she seemed interesting. She said I was really cute and she was single.
However, after I told her I was 20 she was like...
"oh ok. you are 20?
well, ttyl. gonna go have a smoke"
and thats the last time I have heard from her, after that she wouldh't return my messages. I don't know what I did wrong? 2 years part is not much and she is 18. Its legal.
What did I do that made her lose interest?
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Why?
People can and do make friends through the net.
Maybe this particular girl doesn't like the "older man".
Spot on!
As for myspace, i dont know any one on it i didnt know before, all my friends on it are my actual friends or band and celebs i have added just to make it look like i have more then 8 friends, which i do but none are as lame as us few who use the internet everyday.
Anyway, she is probably not 18, more likely 14 but lied to have a public account not a private one.
:yes:
Back away from myspace. Don't lower youself to those patethic standards.
I just have one to see what the fuss was about.
Oh, and webcam sluts :yes:
The ones who take it really seriously are all goons though.
e.g All the friends i've made here.
dont stress about it too much cos looking at the bigger picture she's only one girl and (getting all physcology now) the problem isnt really about her but about you (sorry cliche i know) thinking that all girls dont like you when really it was just one weird person.
What can I do?
You've not met her in real life, you have no idea what her values are. She might be a total loser who has a horrible personality.
So she has a myspace account, where she writes only what she wants people to see. It doesn't mean she's the person for you.
This might sound really mean, and I really dont want it to be, but looking up random people on the net, is the new "looking at porn".
Agreed. Also remember that people act totally different (most anyway, talking from experience) IRL than they do in the internet - I for one do act differently.
Thats the thing, she was interested at first, you see. I it wouldn't bother me if she just rejected me right off the bat. But I got to know her a little bit during the few days we talked to each other...
I just don't know what happened and Im confused
I was thinking about sending her something sweet. Just to get her attention again
So keep on stalking her until you get banned from myspace for being a weirdo. She's probably already blocked you if she's not replying to your msgs.
Couldn't have said it much better!
But yeah...if i were you i'd stay the hell away from her...unless you do you'll be doing more harm than good.
And yes, if you think some random chick on myspace that you've never met before can be "the one", you DO need help.
ffs. forget about her.
:yes: And how can you say that she's the one for you? You haven't even met her yet and you've only known her for about 5 minutes or so?:rolleyes:
:yes: And I dont' know about there, but here you get 2-5 for stalking. Just another myspace casuality. Gross.
She was the one that started it, and now she has been the one that's stopped it.
She was interested and now she's not.
Nothing's happened, she's got bored and moved on. You need to do the same, being as you actually know fuck all about her.
:yes: basically.
I know this probably doesn't help right now, but I'm sure at some point you'll meet a lovely girl somewhere and you'll be glad you never bothered with this one.
P.S. I'm an 18 year old girl, and I would never reject someone for being 20:thumb:
"Hey
I haven't spoke with you in awhile. You were probably turned off by my age..
Well, I wasn't trying to date a complete stranger just to let you know, you just looked familier and I thought that we can form a friendship."
This is what I wrote her, hopefully she replies back.
I've also found out something new, she is actually 17, turning 18 soon. I had a friend ask her out old she was and she said she was almost turning 18.
Anyway I hope she replies
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if she was the one for u, she'd be messaging you.
she's probably laugh at you/creeped out at you.
He needs some more lessons in talking to people and making normal non-stalker-ish conversation.
Oh well, it'll hopefully be a lesson learnt the hard way.
I didn't do anything wrong as far as im concerned and how im I being stalkerish?
It seems like you are very hung up on a girl who you've conversed with for about two minutes.
Let it go.