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not many peeps like someone to throw themselves at them, people can smell over keen a mile off and its really off putting. of course let someone know u like them/interested in them but part of being attractive is someone not needing you. someone who would like u as part of their life but u arent there whole life. at the least in the early stages, anyway.
as u meet more girls through time, u will come to realise what works and what doesnt. you'll mold into it naturally.
:yes: Is it just me, or does the poster seem to think that any girl he meets, will be a potential girlfriend?
Sorry, but phrases like that sound so clinical! you should back off now, your being weird. Post a link to your myspace so we can see what she put and what her profile looks like, I have a feeling its not what you think it is.
People, I was completely normal to her. I will tell you guys the whole story, than maybe you will understand FULLY what happened alright?
This was my first message to her. After she commented my pics of course
Me: How old are you?
Her: Haven't you seen my profile? I'm 17 years old. It's in my "about me"..if you read it. You? I don't know you, do I? My friend said she's seen you before..
Me: You look familier to me and I never forget a pretty face..Which High school did you go to? and what is your friends name?
Her : Oh. Well, thanks. You look a bit familiar too. I go to Oakmont. Her name is Ashley alderson. She goes to Del Campo.
Me: You're Welcome
Do you mind posting me a link at Ashley Alderson myspace?
Its hard to remember every single girl in high school but, you do look familier and you say I am familier to you too eh?
Haha real interesting. We should hang out sometime.
Talk to you later
Her: you already added her, so you should know who she is. What high school did you go to? oakmont? what area do you live in?
yeah, you look somewhat familar. maybe we knew eachother in a past life?
Me: Really? well she is 16, so I definaly didn't go to high school with her.
I didn't realize I already had her on my list. My old myspace got deleted so I had to add everyone all over again.
I bumped into your profile and thought you look familier, I know how I saw you from somewhere...
No I went to Del campo high school....
I live in Carmichael
Her: oh ok. you are 20?
well, ttyl. gonna go have a smoke.
and thats the last message I got from her
Yes - reading this thread gives me the picture that Dark David has nothing better to do than sit in front of a computer, mourning over the futility of his stalking attempts.
Exactly. And if someone comes across as a stralker/deparate, then they're less likely to ind anyone willing to go out with them.
That and she was probably just a bit of a dicktease, you do get them on MySpace.
So what did I do wrong exactly?
argh. This sort of shit is why the internet has a bad name.
I just said it and its obvious she aint the one for me. I just need feeling better is all because I can never take rejection that well
Well, you now need to let it go and move on. Stop acting all "stalker-ish" with leaving messages otherwise she will just freak out.
Move on.
And I LOVELOVE MySpace, I've made lotsa mates because of it, and found people I used to go to college with. It's grand.
Strangers become friends, and sometime friends become more than that.
What im saying is, she should at least give me a chance. Hell, Sometimes I get random girls or guys adding me and I talk to them everytime they send me a message.
Anyway, you guys know the whole story as I have posted it earlier. I left a comment on her front page saying
"Hey how have you been?"
But I never got a reply, this was over a week ago, but than when some other guy message her, she replies back to him.
I dunno why I am so hung up over some girl I don't know....probably because she rejected me even before I get to know her..
For a start, you sound totally obsessed with her...
I haven't messaged'd her once after that comment I left her.
*sigh* I can wait forever and never get a reply
And you've probably scared her off as well. You're just as bad as some people I used to know at school.
But she doesn't. She's plainly not interested, and that's her right. She doesn't have to acknowledge your existance in any way. She may not like you, she may like you, but, more likely, she nothings you. You are a random nobody.
I suggest you try your luck elsewhere. Maybe in a less creapy and clingy manner.
Tough. That's life. We all have to get used it it.
You guys know the whole story, so tell me, When did I freak her out? with message made her go away?
YOU TELL ME