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Lacking a crush

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Anybody else here not fancy anyone?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Anybody else here not fancy anyone?

    I went through a drought recently but I fancy a couple of people at the moment.

    :love:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Anybody else here not fancy anyone?

    I went through this phase earlier this year. Apparantely, this made me 'weird'. :yeees:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was like that for a long time when I was younger (I got my first poster a year ago and insisted animals were much cooler than humans :no: ). Now I'm torn between two, one of which I see about once every three months. I see his car more often so it's basically a crush on a ghost. :yeees:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me no got no crush... :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me! It's quite annoying actually... but at least I'm not lusting after anyone I can't have so I'm not lonely. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no i haven't got one either!

    though did just see the fittest policeman on traffic cops. :love:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ha you've made a thread similar to this recently if memory serves me correct!

    No don't have a crush and tbh don't need one, it's better to look at the full menu than just stare at the burger and chips :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haha, I have one at the moment but to be honest, alot of the time I don't.

    The guys I usually end up with are the ones that come after me. Sounds lame, I know.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't know if I do or not.

    I think I might do, haha.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lu_C wrote:
    Me! It's quite annoying actually... but at least I'm not lusting after anyone I can't have so I'm not lonely. :)

    Yeah, me too. Was a bit worried about it for a bit. Coming out of a relationship and not finding anybody I even wanted to ask out. But now I've found somewhere else to direct my energies. I'm finally writing again. Woohoo! So I'm quite liking the whole being alone, playing hermit thing. Gives me more time to get on with my book.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    turlough wrote:
    ...it's better to look at the full menu than just stare at the burger and chips :thumb:

    Ha... I love it!

    I have a million-and-one crushes, they're all something and nothing though.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, me too. Was a bit worried about it for a bit. Coming out of a relationship and not finding anybody I even wanted to ask out. But now I've found somewhere else to direct my energies. I'm finally writing again. Woohoo! So I'm quite liking the whole being alone, playing hermit thing. Gives me more time to get on with my book.

    Hermits used to get paid by wealthy families to live in the grounds of their mansions just so they had a bit of a talking point during parties! Random factoid there!

    Think was during Edwardian times but could be wrong!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, you can all fancy me if you want :flirt:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i remember at school, all my friends would have silly little school girl crushes, but i never did
    i probably thought the odd guy was ok - i really fancied my bf before we went out the first time :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hermits used to get paid by wealthy families to live in the grounds of their mansions just so they had a bit of a talking point during parties! Random factoid there!

    Hmmm. Wonder if I can get some gullible wealthy folks to pay me to mooch around at theirs. :)

    Anybody on here ever wonder if they were assexual? I did, for a while. But turns out I'm most definitely not.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm. Wonder if I can get some gullible wealthy folks to pay me to mooch around at theirs. :)

    Anybody on here ever wonder if they were assexual? I did, for a while. But turns out I'm most definitely not.
    I dunno... Sometimes I like men, then I like women, then I just have no sexual interest anywhere.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Stacey* wrote:
    Haha, I have one at the moment but to be honest, alot of the time I don't.

    The guys I usually end up with are the ones that come after me. Sounds lame, I know.

    same here! the guys i end up seeing are guys that fancy me first!...but i'd much rather be not fancying anyone at the moment.. it's a lot easier that way!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm. Wonder if I can get some gullible wealthy folks to pay me to mooch around at theirs. :)

    Anybody on here ever wonder if they were assexual? I did, for a while. But turns out I'm most definitely not.


    My mate is assexual. She's never liked a girl or boy, never thought anyone was good looking. She's 18.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My friend isnt worried by it, she just wants to know the feeling of "love" as she constantly asks me. She has had no experience either.

    I thought maybe if she went out with someone, that she may start liking, but havent tested that theory
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol, I never seem to have had one of these yet. Usually, i fancy a girl for around a year before I get the gaul to ask them out, and it is always a no. Then, as part of my "curse", they go out with a different guy, for a long period of time.

    So yea, I guess I am either lucky, or really cursed =p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go through patches of fancying no one fairly often. If Im lucky someone crops up once in a while. My crushes can be incredibly short lived at times though!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fairy wrote:
    Go through patches of fancying no one fairly often. If Im lucky someone crops up once in a while.

    Same here
    My crushes can be incredibly short lived at times though!

    I'm sometimes like this, but the last guy I fancied, I fancied him for about 2 and a half years...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bri-namite wrote:
    I don't know if I do or not.

    I think I might do, haha.
    Same.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I haven't done for ages, especially seeing as i don't meant many new people, up until i saw an old friend i hadn't seen in ages weekend before last :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haven't had a proper strong one for ages, but I think I'm on the verge of one right now, with someone I really shouldn't (don't worry, it's not like a mates mum or anything).
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haven't had a proper strong one for ages, but I think I'm on the verge of one right now, with someone I really shouldn't (don't worry, it's not like a mates mum or anything).


    mates dad?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mates dad?
    You got me. :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do at the moment, but I haven't for a long time
  • JsTJsT TheSite Graduate Posts: 18,265 Incredible Poster
    Not really got my eyes on anyone.
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